Girls, if you asked a guy why he gets nervous, are you interested in him?

[Anonymous]

Lets say there is a guy who you know always gets nervous around you. Would you ask him why he gets nervous if you weren’t interested?

i spoke to a few girl friends and they say it’s a sign that a girl is interested. They told me if they werent interested, they wouldn't create any situations where the guy can say anything about his feelings to the girl.

[youngmix]

Depends on how nervous. If he looks insanely nervous, like some Mel Gibson talking to Julia Roberts in Conspiracy Theory level nervousness, then I just want to know if I need to run.

If it's just a normal convo, and he looks nervous because he's talking with me, then I am into him. Because in this case, I know why he's nervous, and I'm trying to lead him into saying something embarrassing. And of course, I'm trying to get him to say that he wants me.
If I don't like him, then I'm not going to ask anything. I'm just going to move through the conversation as quickly as possible.

[Asker]

What if it’s a guy you barely talk to, but see regularly?

Lets say you see him and he gets visibly nervous, and then the first thing you do is ask him “why do you get so nervous?”

[youngmix]

Yes, apply what I wrote to your hypothetical man as well.

I had a guy in that situation, and I pressed him until he finally told me, "I'm sorry.. you are so beautiful in so many ways that it's hard for me to speak with you. I know that you are more than this, and I don't want you to feel uncomfortable. It's just, when I look at you, I see perfection. I am trying to have a normal conversations with you, and I'm really sorry."

I respected what he said, I was into it, and I was into him. I really enjoyed the dynamic, and I love shy guys. I can get deeper into what I felt, and how the conversation progressed, but I think that was a very mature way to handle what he couldn't control.

[Asker]

Damn that sounds nice. Cool that he answered instead of being scared.

By pressed you mean that you asked him numerous times?

You can go deeper into what you felt. Idm.

[youngmix]

Yeah, I pretty much continued asking him why he was behaving certain ways. "Why aren't you looking at me?", "Are you shy?", "What's wrong?". While I kind of laughed. Stuff like that.

I liked that I made him feel this way, something so intense, and he said all of the right things. Nothing he said was stupid or offensive. He was honest, and I felt like he gave into me a little bid. I liked that feeling, and I like him.

[scooogy]

That would imply people with random panic attacks being the most interesting people in the world.

[Asker]

I mean there’s a huge difference between that and being nervous around someone you like.

[Guy13]

Most of the time they think you are a freak. If they asked then they are likely very interested.

[Asker]

Sorry I’m a bit confused, so they think you are a freak, but are also likely interested?

[Guy13]

In your case, interested. Sorry for the confusion.

[Asker]

I don't know maybe the girl is just very social and outgoing?

Is this actually a sign of interest, and if yes, what makes it a sign of interest?

[Ms_Facesitter]

No, I just want to know if he's nervous.

[Asker]

Alright