Girls, if you asked a guy you don’t know very well if he has a girlfriend, what’s your intention?

[Anonymous]

does it mean you are interested or just being friendly?

i should provide some context:

i have a crush on this girl and i always get nervous around her. She noticed that and the conversation went on like this:

Her: “Why do you get so nervous?”

Me: “I don’t know”

Her:”You don’t know? Do you feel nervous around girls? Have you never talked to them? Don’t you have a girlfriend?”

Me:”No”

[Avicenna]

It's usually because she is interested in him. Women know that question can be misinterpreted if they aren't interested.

[Asker]

I just found out that she might have a boyfriend. I asked a guy friend of mine.

Could it be that she was just making small talk?

[aj0601]

I personally ask this if i’m interested in someone

[Asker]

The nervous thing or the girlfriend thing? Or both?

[aj0601]

Honestly both.

[Asker]

I can understand the girlfriend question, but how does asking someone why they get nervous show interest?

[aj0601]

From what is sounds like she’s picking on you to flirt with you. Some girls do that

[Asker]

Sorry wdym by picking on you in this context?