Girls, why would you ask a guy whether he has a girlfriend or not?

[Anonymous]

Lets say it’s a guy who is a familiar face but have only talked like 3 times to in months.

[CarolinaJones]

It will often be a strong sign that she is attracted to you especially if she shows other signs of attraction around you. It could also be that one of her friends likes you or she might just ask to make conversation.

[EmmaMary]

Just being polite, inquisitive and perhaps remotely interested.

[Asker]

Sorry i I’m confused, don’t you mean “or” instead of “and”?

How can someone be both polite and interested?

[EmmaMary]

No, polite as in just making conversation... Nothing More Nothing Less.

[Asker]

Yes and you said “polite and perhaps remotely interested”.

Don’t you mean “or”?

[EmmaMary]

No I didn't, I said "inquisitive and perhaps remotely interested".

[Asker]

Oh alright i misread

[EmmaMary]

No problem. 🙂

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHGirl.

[LexiXide]

It could be they wanna date you

[Asker]

Any way to figure out?

[LexiXide]

What was the whole conversation about I've had this happened to me before

[Asker]

Well there wasn’t a lot of convo.

Basically what happened is that I got nervous around her and she noticed that.

She started asking me these questions:
1. Why I get nervous around her
2. Why i get nervous around girls
3. If I don’t have a girlfriend (i think she meant it in the way of saying that no one is that nervous if they have a girlfriend/experience with girls?)

[LexiXide]

Well I've never heard of that fact but my guess is that she wants to date you cause a boy did the same thing to me

[Asker]

Can you explain what the guy did, if that’s okay?

[LexiXide]

I was nervous around my crush and he asked me if I had a boyfriend and I told him no and then after a few weeks he asked me out

[Asker]

Oh so he noticed that you get nervous.

[LexiXide]

yes exactly

[Guy13]

Because she is interested

[Guy13]

1. She wants to see if there is room for her
2. She wants to let you know that you need to ask her out

It’s almost like a sure thing. Jump on the chance.

[Asker]

Couldn’t it be that it’s just small talk?

Honestly for me at least as a guy, it would be a pretty ballsy step for me to ask a girl if she has a boyfriend. I would only be asking that if 1. Im really comfortable with the girl or 2. Interested.

But that’s just my thinking, someone else might think differently.

[Guy13]

There is nothing in there about her having a boyfriend. That’s news to me…?

[Asker]

No i meant it in a “what if” case.

IF i asked a girl that question. I didn't ask this girl i mentioned.

[Guy13]

Stop making Negatives up. I’ve got no stake in this. She’s interested. You are really rough on yourself. I hope people don’t get that vibe. Take a Risk so you are not living in regret. I can tell you are nice guy…GO for it 💪

[Avicenna]

Usually it's only if she's interested in him

[Asker]

Any other option?

[Avicenna]

It's relatively rare, but sometimes it's just to make conversation