Me and my younger sister had a big fight. She is a typical feminist and has ego. As a big brother I want to apologize to her. What do you think?

[Anonymous]

We were bit close but some women in my family created a rift between us. We live only once and I have only one sister. Sometimes I hate her and sometimes not. She is married and she makes some money. She always makes fun of me and all the men. I have a bigger heart than her and she knows that.

[Vegasrunner]

Let it slide she's you sister and younger one at that. Maybe one day she'll learn but as her big brother just let her know you're there for her.

[Asker]

That's how I feel. We have stopped talking.

[Adam1978]

Don't apologize unless you done something wrong. Having a fight doesn't need to be wrong, sometimes you need to give feedback that leads to fights.

[Asker]

I haven't done anything wrong. She has always insulted me. Whenever she insults me, I get angry and I yelled at her. But I still love her, hating my own sister is highly impossible.

[Adam1978]

Well work on your agression, she might do it because you are easily offended.

[Asker]

Then why she is doing it? Making fun of me and all men. Is it good?

[Adam1978]

No it's not good, but inmature women do anything for drama. The less you give her, the more likely she get bored doing it and will either stop or find another target. When she comes asking for favors, reject them and point out the reason, that she needs to be nice to get those fulfilled and she hasn't.

[Asker]

Yes, I have rejected her invitations. She invited me to shopping, lunch and dinner, I didn't go. She is a full grown woman, she is married but she is still immature. I know it will take time to change her.

I helped her succeed in her career. Now she has become a feminist and taking revenge on me, men.

[Anonymous]

Dont apologize to her. She will never learn if you do

[Asker]

May be you are right.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah dont do it!

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO!

how did it go?

[Asker]

I didn't apologize. I will do it couple of months later. Let her miss me, let her understand the real value of brother - sister love.

[Opinion Owner]

Dont apologize at all! If she is worthy to be your sister she will do it herself

[Asker]

Okay. Let her apologize.

[Opinion Owner]

Good!

[Guanfei]

Don't. Considering her profile, she'll use against you, but also against any other guy because she'll think that's how you get them to do whatever she wants.

[hsshannah96]

Yeah depends what all went down

[Asker]

I love her, I don't want to hate her. But I don't like her behavior. She said ," I am a successful independent woman and you are a loser man ". She was so good sister when we were kids, as we grew up she turned out to be a bitter woman.

[hsshannah96]

ok that’s not ok. So apologize for your part if you said mean things but tell her she owes you one as well at some point because of the way she worded her feelings

[Asker]

She has always insulted me. But I yelled at her and I used some harsh words. We are not talking since a year.
We had big fight many times before, then everything was working fine between us but again some women brain washed her to make fun me.

[SnowedIn]

Don't approach her until you fix your attitude.

[Luckycharms12]

Nah fuck her