She's very secretive about her life outside of the place I know her?

[Anonymous]

i've known her at that place for several years now and we've talked many times and know a lot of the same people there. but when ever i try and find out anything about her life outside of there it pretty much goes nowhere and sometimes she isn't even honest with me and makes stuff up. like last summer she claimed to know nothing about this country music concert than i found out a week later she had tickets and went with her gfs.

but i don't think any of my questions were inapproiate for the circumstances or location , was only trying to get to know her better. and i shared details about my own life too. so not entirely sure how to get any answers out of her , sometimes i just listen when she talks to other people and surprised by what she tells them as seems to be more open with them than me.

[Anonymous]

You are not entitled to know everything about her private life. Back off.

[Asker]

i never asked about anything truly private , like questions about her interests ( like if she went to the gym ) and if she liked other restaurants in the area. not about her actual private life as in who's she's slept with or where she lives.

[Anonymous]

She's just a really private person.

[Asker]

i don't know she doesn't seem private at all when she talks to other people , this seems to just be occurring with me. i've seen her talk to other people and be pretty open about just about anything