Why do girls do this?

[Danny_dan92]

Many different times after beginning to talk to a girl, they would soon complain that I follow a bunch of females. When they follow a bunch of guys themselves which that doesn’t bother me cause at the end of the day, the girl would be talking to me.


It’s as if they would want me to only follow them

[8UniquelyBoring8]

I understand how this situation might be frustrating for you. It's important to understand that everyone has their own preferences and boundaries when it comes to social media and relationships. Some people may feel uncomfortable or jealous when their partner or potential partner follows a large number of members of the opposite sex on social media.


It's important to have open and honest communication with the girl you're interested in and understand her perspective on this issue. Try to listen to her concerns and address them in a respectful manner. You can also explain your own perspective and boundaries in a calm and clear way.


At the end of the day, it's up to both of you to come to a mutual agreement on how to handle social media in your relationship. Remember to respect each other's opinions and boundaries, and don't feel pressured to change your behavior or compromise your values if it doesn't feel right for you.

[Danny_dan92]

What I would tell them is

“Well I’m talking to you consistently for one, two we’re not together, third you follow lots of guys but that doesn’t bother me”

[8UniquelyBoring8]

I understand how you feel, and if she cannot accept it, it might pose a problem. What would you do if it does, do you have a plan established?

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah right after that I’d say. If that’s a dealbreaker for you then you don’t have to keep talking to me.

So basically my philosophy is this.

If a man and woman cross paths and they like each other. Both technically shouldn’t be loyal to each other UNTIL they devote and dedicate more time with each other. And more importantly when they both agree to make it official.

The reason why I’m a firm believer that it is important to not dedicate 100% right away is cause when you remain open until you shouldn’t is cause it allows you to gain a better perspective on a relationship with that person.

For example. If you’re talking to multiple people, comparing them to one another and one in particular checks the most boxes. Then from there you would know for a fact that they are meant to be in a relationship with. I don't know if that makes sense