Are women able to detect bad men?

[BobLouis]

I've heard a lot of women point a guy for being nerdy, abusive or a loser, but some how a lot of women end up with a degenerate guy.

I hear them complain about guys and have a shopping list of criteria that man has to meet, but always end up with a degenerate guy.

How accurate is a woman's intuition?

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Just curious that's all. Peace, love, and good vibes to everyone. 💜

[DizzyDesii]

I dont even know how use my intuition when it comes to guys 🤣 He’d have to say or do something straight up red flaggish for me to realize he ain't the one. I often pray for the Lord to give me a sign

https://www.youtube.com/embed/U8U_gR58eJU

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for mho

[katiesmuff]

From what you read and see apparently NOT!

[provokeesmokee]

For me, I trust my instincts.

And that - like many women - comes from decades of experiencing bad people.

Bad folks usually give me "off" vibes. I feel anxious, on guard, and I pay close attention to them. How do they stand and what's their body language like? What words are they using and do they let others speak?

It's hard to explain exactly, because it's hundreds of checks on tons of little things.

I don't really care if I make a mistake every now and again. There's enough good men out there that a false positive on a bad man vibe check isn't going to hurt my chances.

I like to see how a man treats his female family, retail workers, kids, and animals. I then like to see how he reacts to being wrong or getting angry.

Apparently I give big dick energy, so me being me in most scenarios will naturally scare off cowardly bad men and macho bad men try to hit on me - which is when I tell them "no, thanks, I'm gay".

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe God sends people warning signs but some ignore them. Like you might see a guy be rude to somebody else for no reason, you might see him over react to an argument, you might see him disrespect you in one case where you did not expect it, or you might see him make a rude comment about somebody that you consider unacceptable.

There were also two times where I had a bad gut feeling. One time somebody was pounding on my door and my intuition told me not to open the door and back then I trusted strangers and always opened the door when people knocked thinking it might be a girl selling cookies or a church collecting donations but that day God told me not to open the door, this fear came over me when I heard somebody knocking on my door and I went to the kitchen to grab and knife and then waited for them to leave.

[inhua]

no they can't. that's what dads are for but ever since dads are getting removed from the nuclear family unit, their daughters have clueless on what men to date

bad men to them are just men who tell the truth like it is and it somehow offends them so much that the man must be an evil sexist/misogynist/incel/bigot

usually physical attractiveness plays a part in determining good personalities from bad personalities whether people admit this or not

even today the rich men who they hate due to the mythical patriarchy aren't these pro-athletes or rappers or movie stars. nah it's all these damn wealthy nerds and geeks who they hated, ostracized and rejected only to see them beat the system that was meant to keep them down

on the flip side, Ted Bundy, Jeremy Meeks, Richard Ramirez, Cameron Herrin and other hot criminals can get plenty of sympathy, defense, love letters and signed petitions begging for their release from prison

[Anonymous]

No. a lot of women just think they have intuition. A person regardless of gender is only as good at detect people of bad character if they know what good character is. Most women that have a problem with finding good men is simply because they have no idea what a good man is. Likely she was born to single mother with an absent father. Or that her father was of very weak character. This gave her toxic view of manhood. She thinks arrogance in guy is confidence. She thinks all the lies of granduer that spill out of his mouth is love and commitment. And this is her life, wash, rinse, repeat until she wises up. Assuming she ever wises up.

Help the women you can man. But always know what you're dealing with. You're dealing with a broken, toxic person a lot of times in these women. In many cases it's best to just avoid them altogether. The first step is she has to accept how f***ed up she is. And most don't want to do that. And you cannot help them then.

[lightbulb27]

They pickup on emotional projection quickly, but doesn't mean they are wise to sift good and bad. They detect "creepy" easily... which is sub conscious thought. But a guy whom projects power and charisma they cannot see through. That be the issue with some serial killers, players, etc.. People can put on a mask and hide until later.

Some better than others, pain brings wisdom.

[devilish-cutie]

we know usually how they are but we just connect with who you connect and can't fake a connection and can't force ysf being with a guy that is good but you dont feel connection with...

[Sharkstealth]

Well Hitler had a wife.

Ted Bundy was engaged.

The Green River Killer was married.

We could go on and on but obviously not.

[DextroShade]

Based on the results I would say they have none, or if they do they ignore it.

[gothbxtch]

i think i’m pretty good at picking up vibes

[BarryLiverstone]

What do you mean by a bad guy?

[Jmmmfi4]

Lol no that's what they look for

[In_Trance]

not usually