Ok so I've been talking to this girl for 3 months now things were great until like 2/3 weeks ago texting started to dry up she said it was her newjob?

[Penshockey]

She said it was her knew job we used to text all the time at night and no it's like 3/4 messages she said she feels like she doesn't have enough hours in the day to work be a mom and text so she just sends small text I left it alone for like a week and I didn't like it so I asked her if she wanted to stop talking and she pretty much said no I don't know what to do I feel like I'm being breadcrumbed I told her I wanna start hanging out more then once a week and so for that hasn't happened she does text me goodmorning if she gets up first but she also works and hr job and tells me she can't have her phone with her to send me text throughout the day she also used to send me snaps a lot more too in the morning I just don't know what to do

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I get the not texting and stuff as much but lately the conversation has been ass I'd ask her stuff and she would just not even answer that part of the text if we were hanging out more I would careless about the texting tho like it's been 3 months I told her I'm actually starting to get feelings for you and think about you I don't know 🤷‍♂️ 🙃

[KingslayerC]

100% she has moved on. She's banging another dude and is hoping you just go away. Don't believe me? Stop texting her. She won't text you. If she wanted to be with you, she would be making time. I'm sure she's playing on her phone 5 hours a day still. Sorry to be mean bro.

[Penshockey]

I did I stopped texting her for 2 days and she sent me like 6 text blowing me up asking me if im ignoring her and shit I don't know I did meet her son 3 times but I'm about to just tell her I'm moving on sorry

[KingslayerC]

That doesn't sound like texts are drying up, it sounds like she can't keep up with your need for attention. It's a marathon, not a sprint, my friend.

Keep yourself busy with other interests and don't put pressure on her to push the relationship forward. She's deciding if you're the right person to form a relationship with. Being pushy or clingy will definitely push her away.

[Penshockey]

Ya it's the conversation tho in the beginning she was always asking questions trying to keep the conversation going now its like I'm putting all the effort in the convoy but I will say if I don't respond inawhile she will double text but it's usually just hey that's what she'll send if I haven't responded

[Jayzee123]

I know when I got a job after getting my undergrad, I suddenly didn’t have time to text people I actually really wanted to talk to. A lot of my relationships suffered because of it. The fact that she has children must make it even more difficult.
im not saying that she’s not ignoring you, but there’s a possibility that she might just be too caught up in her new job and trying to get everything in order and once she’s settled in things could go back to normal?

[Jazzy54]

Depending on the type of job, she’s probably legitimately quite busy now.

[strateguy632]

wait until after work