My ex’s new girlfriend messaged me?

[Anonymous]

I haven’t dated my ex in almost 2 years. & I dumped him. She messaged me out of nowhere today on Facebook, I don’t have her as friend on Facebook & I don’t know her. She asked if I dated her boyfriend and I said yes & she asked me if I liked him. I said no and she said “good because he’s my fiancée and I don’t want anyone else liking my man” & I told her I don’t want him and that I dumped him for a reason and she kept asking what reason that was & she told me to stay away from him & to not talk to him if I see him in public. She just kept going on & on. I’ve never had a problem with her until now. After I quit responding to her & shut her down she blocked me. Why would she message me about this? I don’t care and I don’t really understand this kind of behavior or the point in it. I’m happy with someone else.

[btbc92]

Oh no, I think your ex boyfriend deserves a lot more better than that. Sounds like he's heading towards trouble and you just got yourself caught up in that mess where he is dating crazy. What it is that she is highly jealous because your ex honestly still considers you an important person in his life, and if he can turn things around he probably would but he knows you wouldn't want to be back with him again. But at the same time, you have to see it like this. As the other guy had said, you did not have to respond to. Most importantly what you should have done prior when you broke up was to have him completely blocked and removed. Just know that she is the one person you need to have a restraining order with. It isn't really her it has to do with him. But it's not him either. She's jealous over what you two once had and she's trying to recreate it because she wants to be controlling and she sounds psychotic.

[Asker]

At first she asked if she could ask me a question and I said “okay” I had never talked to her before and she seemed like an alright person at the time.

[btbc92]

She isn't. She sound mentally ill.

[G3tAClue]

Definitely sounds like she’s got insecurities about their relationship. It probably has nothing to do with you. I wouldn’t worry about it.

[SlothySlob]

Your first mistake was responding / reacting to her. You're second mistake was persisting with the notion that you don't care about him. Your third mistake is actually caring what's happening to them. Let it go. This "question" should not have even existed in the first place, not on here or in your mind. Don't let it pester you.

[CapnHawk]

She sounds immature and insecure. You're better off having zero contact with her.

[Quackthulu]

Well, that right there is a crazy bitch. You should screenshot the conversation, send it to him, and then block them both.

[Kitz95]

Sounds like she’s got some issues, don’t worry about it.

[mollyyyy37474]

She probably has trust issues don’t worry.