Is there a reason women find most men physically unattractive?

[Anonymous]

Are men just really ugly?

[inhua]

because beauty standards for men have increased to the point where being average is no longer acceptable even if someone passes the average benchmark

for example, the average height for men is 5'9 but the actual benchmark for an attractive height is 6 feet tall which is 3 inches above the average. less than 15% of men are over 6 feet tall

then there's also 6 pack abs which take strict dieting and exercise to not only obtain but to maintain and not easy without supplements to keep him at less than 5% body fat

the average penis length is 4 inches but the benchmark is at 6 inches long which is 2 inches above the average

and that's not even mentioning shoulder-width, angle of jawline, brow ridge height, symmetrical face etc.

for men to be considered physically attractive, they need to fall into 1 of 3 categories. the pretty boy type e. g. Justin Beiber, the Chad type e. g. Channing Tatum and the hyper-masculine type e. g. Jason Momoa. a 5'3 Indian janitor is never going to fall into any of these 3 categories no matter how hard he tries minus some form of surgery yet to be invented and there's more of him than there are these attractive men

long story short, attractive men are extremely rare. if every man was 6 feet tall, had 6 pack abs, looked more or less like clones of Liam Hemsworth, then nobody would be attractive

[slatyb]

I don't think they do. Maybe they just find you unattractive?

[Asker]

I need some of that blue pilled stiff you're taking

[Asker]

Stuff

[slatyb]

LOL. I'm happily married to a woman who is quite attractive, the beauty of her high school class then and now.

[Asker]

This isn't the 80s or 90s boomer

[Anonymous]

Most men are fine with me, I really don't think about whether they're attractive or not. If someone's really good looking I'll notice, but I don't do anything.

[Spongebobssocks]

Most women need to be emotionally attracted to a man to become physically attracted to him. So it will usually depend on how he acts

[Brant78]

What about women? Do most women need to be emotionally attracted to women to become physically attracted to them?

[Spongebobssocks]

@Brant78 im not sure. I'd guess if a woman is homosexual or bisexual then yes.

[Brant78]

Yes! exactly, bisexual, we're talking about the average woman.

[Asker]

Most men aren't even given a chance to show their personalities unless they're physically attractive first

[Spongebobssocks]

@asker that is true. But almost no woman will sleep with a guy just because he looks good. Thats what dates and clubs are for. Women want to know him a bit and then his potential physical attraction can become real attraction.

However I have and will never need to know what it takes to make a woman intressted.

[Spongebobssocks]

@Brant78 the avarage woman is bisexual? Where did you find that data?

[Asker]

But most women won't sleep or date a guy for personality alone either 🙃

[Spongebobssocks]

No but it opens up the door to physical attraction. With men its the opposite

[Asker]

How likely is that to happen? Not very. In GENERAL most women have to be physically attracted to you first

[Brant78]

No data, just the fact that most women are sexually turned on by women and lesbian sex tells you that most women are bisexual. You're a woman, so you should know that, right?

[Spongebobssocks]

No look I just told you how women function. I didn't say she doesn't need to be physically attracted to you she does. But as a woman myself I understand woman but you do you. Believe what you want:) goodluck with that! Bye

[Asker]

Women know women better than they know themselves

[Asker]

Men know*

[Spongebobssocks]

Thank you for MHO!

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Most men aren't attractive. Which is why women find other traits to be attracted to.
Good looking guys don't get attention from them either unless they possess those other traits.
Way of the world! Dont worry about it

[jennifer_bloom]

I don't consider most men to be ugly. I consider around 5% of guys my age to be ugly. I'm not physically attracted to men most of the time. I would say I'm neutral towards 80% of men.

[Asker]

So you're not straight?

[jennifer_bloom]

Straight

[Asker]

Is there any generality you believe in when it comes to dating?

[Brant78]

Yeah straight my ass

[Anonymous]

If that was true, then all heterosexual men would be single.

[Asker]

Most are. 63% of men are single in 2023 as where only 34% of women are single

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe where you live. But it doesn't mean that it's like that in other places.

[Asker]

Generally speaking

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think it's like that, but I respect your opinion.

[Asker]

Most women dont think in terms of generalities. Its always individuality which isn't helpful

[Opinion Owner]

That's not what I said at all. But ok...

[BarryLiverstone]

Most find guys average. Just like moat guys see girls as average

[Akam93]

I don't find all men unattractive.

[Asker]

You find most men unattractive (which is fine by the way)

[Akam93]

I do?

[Asker]

I know you do

[gothbxtch]

i wouldn’t say that

[Asker]

Then what could be the reason women find 80% of men unattractive?