My wife and I are having issues. Any advice?

[Anonymous]

For the past 8 weeks I'd say, my wife and I have been arguing a little bit more than usual and it's bothering me. I hate confrontation so arguments with my loved ones is not a good feeling. We first didn't argue heavily.. we were just distant. I would find excuses to touch her or talk to her but she would be cold and if I touched her she push me away. We had a really big argument last week. We were getting ready to go to an event and she just seemed a little grumpy.. so I asked her why she was acting that way and she was being sarcastic and very rude.. I got heated and by me getting heated she became heated aswell. We haven't talked since. I tried apologizing but she would smirk and don't say anything. What should I do?

[GreatBigCircles]

You should tell her that you're uncomfortable and unhappy with the state of the relationship, and don't think it can last if it keeps going. Maybe try going to a relationship councilor if you both want to get things better but can't figure out how... Or if she doesn't seem receptive to your concerns, you might want to just break it off.

[DextroShade]

You need to ask her what the hell her problem is. Tell her that if she's is going to pout like a spoiled child you will leave, as you should anyway. She sounds like she has very poor relationship skills.

[Anonymous]

You better learn how to communicate and fast or this is going to implode.

[Avicenna]

Is this completely out of character for her?

[Asker]

Well yes and no. She always had a strong personality.

[In_Trance]

Work through your issues

[Anonymous]

Go to family counseling