Periods of my wife... What should I do?

[Aydinim]

My wife has severe anger bursts before her period and she always finds things to fight at that time... She sometimes uses slangs to me... and that really annoys me... I know that is something about their biology, but i am losing my patience... what should i do?

[Soft4u]

I know it isn't fair for you to be the outlet of your wife's anger during that time, you are smart enough to know she doesn't mean the things she says.
It's not easy to explain to someone who hasn't or doesn't go through it, during that time your wife feels justified in the things she says, if she doesn't feel you deserve it her head tells her it's still okay to say.
Try talking to her, above all don't provoke her bc of how you feel, it's the fallout that comes with her period, I'm sure she's not normally like that so try to be the bigger person and look at it this way, she definitely doesn't enjoy how she feels or getting angry at you.

[Aydinim]

Very useful comment, thanks... i try to be supportive all the time , when understands her mistake she apologizes

[Soft4u]

That's good then she recognizes how she is with you, believe me she doesn't want to treat you like that, at the time tho she would rather say mean things than hold back.
You're doing the right thing.

[Aydinim]

But i am really losing my love to her... tho i know that she doesn't mean the things she did... i always warn her about not eating salty food, drinking caffeine before her periods , because these things make everything worse... but she doesn't listen to me... we have got a daughter at the age of two, i dont want her to grow with seperated parents

[Anonymous]

Speak up and be honest with her about how it makes you feel

[Aydinim]

Of course i should do that when she is not in Pms, right?

[kestrelkil]

Use your words and talk to her about BEFORE it happens, and for fuck sake don't start the conversation with" so your period makes you _____ "

[codycccccccccc]

Simple you start a business and plan your business trips accordingly

[esotericstory]

Make her understand that hormone imbalances are not a legitimate excuse for abuse.

[Jackblue]

Have you tried chocolate and massages?

[Aydinim]

Yes , but they dont stop her anger attact... yesterday she shouted at me and said mean things which are painful for all males... and after that her period came

[Jackblue]

hmm, maybe you could ask your sister or some female relative to have a woman to woman chat with her