Girls, Really confused and kinda... nervous?

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Hello uh... so it's my first time doing this kind of stuff but I'm just really really lost right now. So uh... the gist is, there's this girl at work.

She's really nice and polite and has a good sense of humor. We barely interacted the first couple of months I've known her. Like we would greet each other and stuff, the usual stuff you do with co-workers.

It's just recently... our company had a trip for an event. After the event, we all decided to have fun and drink to celebrate and stuff, you know, the usual. The thing is, as were all drinking, she got really excited and started asking me about my preferences and stuff, which caught me off guard because she's usually so quiet and polite and gets pretty shy easily. I don't remember my answers because I passed out due to drinking so much, lol

But yeah, I didn't think much of it because I just assumed it must've been the alcohol that's making her like that and she's just curious.

However, more recently, she started teasing me out of nowhere and apparently I said something about liking girls with glasses and ponytails according to some of my co-workers that were drinking with us and yeah, I have noticed that slight change in her.

I caught her trying out different glasses at different times and noticed her wearing her hair in a ponytail, sometimes she even does both at the same time!

It just feels all so sudden and I'm confused. Like we barely interacted at all for the past few months until recently and I don't know how to properly approach it. I will admit, I didn't think much of her at first even if I did notice she looks nice.

But as time went on, I did kinda start to think she was cute the more I got exposed to her personality at work.

Sorry, this is all so new to me because I've never really had any experiences with this kind of stuff before, so... any advice?

Updates
9 mo
I forgot to add, I got transferred recently to our sister company so technically, we aren't co-workers anymore.

I got transferred before the trip and she did all of this once the news of me being transferred got out
Girls, Really confused and kinda... nervous?
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