Why are the girls who are insecure always the most pretty?

[Anonymous]

[noemiii]

As an attractive girl I can give you a real answer and that is because when you are very attractive but don’t base your worth on your attractiveness, you feel inadequate expressing yourself. This is the real reason so many very attractive women develop an aura of arrogance because when you are attractive and humble, your problems aren’t allowed to be expressed, meaning anything you say is “bragging” or you’re not allowed to have problems because you’re attractive.
Also, some very attractive women rarely get compliments. This can cause self esteem issues.
In high school I had a friend who was very average looking. No disrespect but she was. I sat around and listened to her brag about the men she could get, her call herself so pretty and brag about herself with grandiose even though she was just over compensating by being promiscuous. When it came time for me to talk about ANYTHING involving myself, she sighed and told me not to be so arrogant.

I know a lot of arrogant attractive women and they give us all a bad rep, but in all honesty it’s society that puts the stigma on how an attractive person must move through life. The only way most attractive people learn not to be so insecure is to be completely narcissistic because society completely judges you on your looks instead of your actual character as a person.

[Asker]

I know a very beautiful girl that's insecure about her looks but she's the sweet person on earth. She's a gem. Attractive and very sweet and caring.

[noemiii]

That’s usually how it goes. The more humble you are as an attractive woman, the more you feel insecure because you don’t often get compliments, some men are afraid to approach you so you think it’s because you aren’t attractive, and when they DO approach you they don’t care about your actual personality, women are mean and hateful towards you, and anything you want to say nice about yourself comes off as arrogance. It’s really hard for an attractive girl NOT to be narcissistic when all of these factors come into play in your life. The most arrogant people I know are average looking women.

[Asker]

The woman in referring to is nice sweet and humble but guys think she's fake.

[DrKrieger]

Out of curiosity, do you think you'd ever settle for someone objectively less attractive than you, but were able to fill that void of boosting your self-esteem? Think xxxSniperWolf and Evan Sausage

[Asker]

@DrKrieger what are u talking about?

[Anonymous]

That's not true im UGLY for real and I know it..

[Anonymous]

Really?

How many pretty girls do you know to judge this on?

[Asker]

Thousands

[Anonymous]

Because most are not. Most are just faking insecurity for the attention. They want you to tell them how pretty they are because thier narcissism knows no bounds.

[In_Trance]

this seems like a you problem