Girls, What does it mean when my female coworker sends me these pictures?

[Anonymous]

One of my coworkers has always been touchy feely with me ever since I got the job. She "accidentally" touched/smacks my ass whenever we're alone and yesterday sent me these pictures. I have no idea wtf is going on. I mean... I find her attractive and everything but I don't know if I should do anything or like what I should even do if I DID want to do something. Girls, can you explain and help?

[AmandaYVR]

She looks like she does OnlyFans. She's monetized her sexuality. That cake is a telltale sign. It's common to send 'clients' birthday-themed, visually. For instance, foot fetishists want the girl to put her feet into birthday cupcakes, and say his name.

I'd stay the hell away from this girl if I were you. She's all about money and manipulation.

You are both employed somewhere, but she clearly has a side gig.

She's also the type of girl who will blackmail or try to extort you or get you fired.

[Asker]

How would she blackmail me? And if she's like thats why is she so sweet? And what does a foot fetish have anything to do with this? I have so many questions...

[AmandaYVR]

Sorry, the blackmail topic was a tad extreme. I mean that if you get into a relationship with a girl like this, and she asked for sexy photos, she later turns nasty and shows those photos to coworkers, or a manager, and says you were coming onto her. It's because you work together, things could get messy.

Who says she's sweet? You? Not me. It might just be an act. She's charming, friendly, confident, flirty - things like that, that you mistake for sweet, maybe?

That cake in the photo. That's why I brought up foot fetishism. Because OnlyFans, porn girls, etc., monetize themselves by 'celebrating' special occasions like birthdays. It's a popular/common request for guys to say, "It's my birthday next week. What are you gonna get me?" Paid subscribers get stuff like this. That cake looks store-bought and very, very cheap. It's the kind of cake you buy someone you don't care about that much. It's not that big an investment, but the guy has to pay some higher amount for the 'gift'. Some sites that aren't porn, etc. have ways around this. "Oops, you dropped something over there." That is a code to have the girl bend over, so he can see her...

She looks like she's trying to be catnip for guys. Or the siren call in mythology. Trouble. Big trouble.

[Asker]

Okay... i appreciate it.. it's just that like i really thought me and her had a connection...

[AmandaYVR]

You can proceed if you want to. But if I was your parent or friend, I would tell you to keep your guard majorly, majorly up. (And basically only do it so that you can learn, here. She's a type.) She has trouble written all over her.

By the way, are you lying about your age? You seem more mature than that under-18.

[Asker]

Okay thank you've helped tremendously. I wouldn't minding calling you a friend at all after you helping me with all this. (Even though the other girls think this is made up. 😒) And also yeah I just threw a random in when making my account not realizing it was the age thing. Can't figure out how to change it...

[AmandaYVR]

You're welcome, and good luck.

I wouldn't put much stock in what anons here say. It's overused, and if they are unwilling to put a name to their comments, you cannot verify their history and credibility at all, so just ignore them. The anon usage has gone way up, and most people here recognize that it has degraded the quality of the content and atmosphere of the community. Those types tend to be either very aggressive or very timid. Answering every topic as anon should not be the default, but sadly, now it is, for many.
I don't allow anon comments on my qs unless it truly is a sensitive subject.

They did not correctly assess your writing. I knew you were being genuine. To be fair, some guys do lie, and pretend they have a hot girlfriend, and then drum up some fake problem, and try to get attention from helpful users on here. But that is not you, not with the way you write.

Sure. And if you feel like it, maybe sometime let me know, "Hey, Amanda, I'm the guy who had the q about coworker girl sending me pics in bikinis, with a birthday cake on a bed." I will remember that.
I'll see you around...

[Asker]

Will do! See you around

[Asker]

You have just received a new follower

[AmandaYVR]

👍

And if you want to change your age, you can't do it yourself, but you can PM the site and say you made a mistake and they will do it for you, whatever age you give them.
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/contact

It's not against the rules; the only thing that is, is if a young person, under 18 irl, pretends to be older. Then it's a safety concern for them.

You won't get as much respect here if people think you're young. I'd suggest you list older, but it's up to you.

[Asker]

Will do, thank you!

[Anonymous]

What does it mean when your female coworker sends you fake pictures from the Internet?

[Asker]

Whatever. I came here for help clearly y'all don't want to help

[Anonymous]

The first girl isn't even the same as the bottom 2-tattoos don't match. None of this story is true. Get a life troll.

[Asker]

You're joking right. How does she not look the same.