Girls, I texted initial reach and its been the whole day and night and no response. Should I just assume she decided against me?

[Anonymous]

[Flower7]

Yes, she’s probably not interested.

[Asker]

Yea i guess I should just give up hope. Do you give your number out or have you to not be interested? It's very cruel.

[Flower7]

Sometimes it can be easier than telling the guy that I’m not interested. They’ve been known to not take rejection well and could even get hostile or violent. Or more likely, I’d just tell him I have a boyfriend. Expressing a straight lack of interest can create a bad situation.

[Asker]

Well I'm going to try and call at least once. She knows who it is now.
I would prefer a girl say no. You mean guys get violent when you tell them no? That's strange.

[Asker]

She got back with me. She wants to see me but doesn't want her boyfriend to find out. We will but I wonder if the boyfriend thing is still a ploy to find out how much I want her. I told her exactly what I wanted.

[Flower7]

She probably really does have a boyfriend. That doesn’t sound like a good situation to get into.

[Asker]

Nope it doesn't. Maybe she can find a friend that will be able to do what I want although that's not the way women actually work.

[Asker]

I can't just let go though.