Asked a girl out over text, she said yes. 2 days later after not hearing from her, she cancelled, but then asked if she could hit me up?

Move on. I tried going out with a waitress and a bartender (not at the same time). After the bar tender I learned my lesson. Don’t try to date girls in that line of work. They are ALWAYS “too busy”. Almost ALL of them take forever to respond. Go find another girl that isn’t a waitress or bartender. It’s not worth the stress and certainly isn’t worth the time if it could be better spent hanging with a girl that makes time for you and responds quickly. You need to be payed back the effort you put in. That doesn’t seem to happen very often with these girls.
Yeah, over the course of our back and forth, she would always take 1-2 business days to respond. Every time she responded, it included an "I'm so sorry, I'm usually much better at responding". I think you're right, I'll move on and date different types of women
@nikeguy1994 I like when you said 1-2 business days! That was fricking hilarious and accurate. And I like to think of "I'm so sorry, I'm usually better at responding" as a "red-checkered flag". Which has two meanings. The "red" part refering to her saying that in the first place. The "checkered" part meaning, if she hasn't worked on getting back to you sooner already, this is how it will always be. (#hopeless) In which case, there won't be a relationship and you'll be stuck in this loop until this gets terminated. Hence the checkered symbolism. Aye man. Sorry you had to go through this. But us guys with similar experiences will always be around to share your pain. 😁🤙🏻
If it were me, I would be pursuing other women in different places.. even if friends and post SO she can see you have a life already.-Don’t go crazy just 2 pics here 3 there 1 there…staggered out 🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️
Got it. People are saying the same thing, just move on and pursue different women. Probably won't be asking out a waitress again lol
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Ignore her heretofore. She doesn’t respect you and that will never change.
Okay. Next time something similar happens, I'll just give it a hard pass. Don't want to deal with it
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Haha. Okay just read the title, that should get the point across in less than 7 seconds
Forget that MoveOn
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