Girls I really need your help on this.So basically one day which was about 2 weeks ago I finally found the courage to ask her out. I've had a crush on her since the first week I started working at this new job. I was walking outside at night beside her after both our shifts were over and before she left in her car I went up to her and asked her out to dinner and she said yes. Then she gave me her number and stupid me didn't add it in the right way where it saves. By the time I realized it was too late. I waited two days to find good timing of why I didn't text her. I didn't want her thinking I lost interest so while she was ringing up a customer I told her how I lost her number. She first said she couldn't hear me then I said it again and she looked upset and said she would give it to me later in a upset tone. I understand that me asking her that time was a bad time. Now it's been a little over a week and I still haven't asked for her number again. She now seems distant towards me. She hasn't reported me yet so I don't know if that means anything lol and two days ago I was bringing up a opened up sealed box where we put into a special goback pile while cashiering. I was looking for the pile and she was there and she said to me "you can hand it to me I'll put it back." While she was working on the go back pile.
She is still interested in you
It's too difficult to tell. That's a confusing situation.
She was interested in you then she lost interest in you
She's interested but is playing hard to get
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I asked a coworker out and she said yes with a smile then I lost her number by accident she won't give it to me again why?
Okay all of your poll answers are wrong. You have to be more receptive to advice. First, you are thinking WAY too much into it.
Just read her body language. Her attitude might change day to day and you are thinking on this rigid trajectory. You have to think less and feel more. Listen to your intuition. She's trying to figure out how you respond to silly little social situations. Whether or not you are calm, easily agitated, weak, rude, polite. All those things.
You have to have clearer idea of what you wan and an ability to read people, and deal with a social situation. That's what she's trying to figure out when doing these things. The best bet is to direct attention at someone else and this time pay attention to body language.
I have been through this before but much younger than you. And I just went full throttle ahead and endured the consequences, the good and the bad, and became a man.
She may think losing her number is just an excuse, or she could think you're not that interested if you were careless enough to lose her number
If I were you, I'd ask her outright on a date. Or to meet up for coffee. Instead of keep asking for her number again. Then if she says yes, arrange a definite time, date and place , there and then. If she confirms it's ok, ask for her number. That way, she'll know you are still very eager about meeting up with her outside of work
If she's distant and plays it cool with you, or doesn't accept your offer, just move on from her
It's difficult to get her and me alone even if it's just for one minute. How do I find that time to ask her out? Just hope we work the same night shift again where there are less people again? On top of that I am getting a new phone next week.
Could you not leave a note with your number on it, and ask her to contact you , then leave it on her work area , so she'll see it when she starts her shift?
Not a good idea we're surrounded by other employees. We both work in customer service around customers too. I'll just find the time when it's just me and her and tell her my days off next week. I found a 5 star restaurant too and tell her when I could pick her up. Is driving her for a first date a bad idea?
I think she probably lost interest in you. If you can lose her number like that, it just means that you do not care enough. I understand it was an accident, but it also indicates that you are one who is careless. And actually, since you both are working together, why don't you just ask her out directly back then? Why do you have to wait to get her number to ask her out for dinner? And you really took your own sweet time to ask her again. She probably thinks you are not interested in her anymore because it does seems that way.
dude... just be direct with her. and use humor if you can.
i haven't spoken to this girl in 2 months and i'm going to be direct and tell her what i've been groing through... if she accepts it great... if not then i move on. I won't waste anyone's time or mine.
Cause she wasn’t interested to start with. If she was she’d give it to you again. She won’t cause she was just planning on laughing at your pathetic texts and calls, giving you the run around, and making excuses.
Like this:
“Gotta cancel our date tonight, my gold fish died.”
Or
“I thought you meant the other Ruth’s Chris steak house.”
If she liked you, she’d give it to you, but you made it easy for her instead of having to delete 5 voicemails and ignore 27 of your texts instead.
Or she said to herself “this turd can’t even manage to not loose my number, he’s a total f*ck up, he’d probably loose our future child in a department store”
What you should have done was not said anything, and wait for her to start chasing you... IF she liked you then have her call you and saved face by not admitting you lost or deleted it.
YOu know what I'd do? I'd say, "Look. I have to tell you the truth about why I lost your number..." Let her ask why. "I was so excited about having a chance to take you out, that I (whatever you did)"
This way 1) you get her talking to you - interested - it's a mystery... why did you lose her number? What did you do with it? Then you stroke her ego "I was so excited..." and make her wonder where you were going to take her. Then play that part up, and give her a good, interesting story about how you lost her number that will make her laugh.
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So basically one day which was about 2 weeks ago I finally found the courage to ask her out. I've had a crush on her since the first week I started working at this new job. I was walking outside at night beside her after both our shifts were over and before she left in her car I went up to her and asked her out to dinner and she said yes. Then she gave me her number and stupid me didn't add it in the right way where it saves. By the time I realized it was too late. I waited two days to find good timing of why I didn't text her. I didn't want her thinking I lost interest so while she was ringing up a customer I told her how I lost her number. She first said she couldn't hear me then I said it again and she looked upset and said she would give it to me later in a upset tone. I understand that me asking her that time was a bad time. Now it's been a little over a week and I still haven't asked for her number again. She now seems distant towards me. She hasn't reported me yet so I don't know if that means anything lol and two days ago I was bringing up a opened up sealed box where we put into a special goback pile while cashiering. I was looking for the pile and she was there and she said to me "you can hand it to me I'll put it back." While she was working on the go back pile.
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