Hey all, hope you can shed some light on this.. I am a senior at a small college, of about 1100-1200.. Met this girl at an off-campus party. We hit it off, talking the whole night, I grabbed her number. She's a freshman, very nice, with a great personality, great smile, plays basketball at the school and loves sports. I texted her the next day, we talked for a little bit, but believe it or not, she's not a huge texter, as her texts are usually brief and concise. Didn't text her the next day, but texted her on Monday as we were having some people over to the room and her and her friend came over, and we drank a little bit and had a good time.. We talked briefly on text the next few days (Every text initiated by me) and I asked her to go out on Saturday night.. She said she wanted to hang out, and we went out bowling and for ice cream.. It was a fun night, I didn't kiss her or try to kiss, just kept it casual and got to know her better. didn't text her at all the next night... She texted me (the only time she ever texted me first) saying, "Just wanted to let you know I did have a good time last night and hope we can do it again soon." I told her I said I could arrange for that and said she was looking forward to it. We texted briefly again all week, all initiated by me, as well as seeing her in the cafeteria and talking to her briefly. I asked her out again and this Friday night we went out for dinner and a movie. During the movie I held her hand, put my arm around her, and grabbed her hand and walked out of the movie together. I held her hand the ride home and when I dropped her off, I moved in for the kiss and we kissed on the lips. I told her good luck in her game tomorrow and she said so you'll be back Sunday (I said yes, because I was going home Saturday). The next day after the date, she had a long road trip for her basketball game (on the road from like 9am until around 10 pm).. I didn't hear from her until all night, so I texted her asking how she was doing and how her day was, as I knew it was long.. Eventually the texting spanned like 15 minutes... Even though the movie wasn't great, I sent her joke text "even with your poor movie selection, I still thought the night was fun." she replied "yeah it was" and I asked her "if she was doing anything fun that night," and she never responded... and I still haven't heard from her today.
The only time she ever texted me first was after the first date, saying she hoped we could do it again.. I thought the 2nd date went real well, holding her hand, putting my arm around her and kissing her, but when I didn't get a text the following day from her, I guess I'm not so sure anymore. She is definitely a shy girl, so I'm confused if she is interested in me and how to approach it.. She's an awesome girl, and I definitely would like to continue seeing her..
Thanks everyone
The only time she ever texted me first was after the first date, saying she hoped we could do it again.. I thought the 2nd date went real well, holding her hand, putting my arm around her and kissing her, but when I didn't get a text the following day from her, I guess I'm not so sure anymore. She is definitely a shy girl, so I'm confused if she is interested in me and how to approach it.. She's an awesome girl, and I definitely would like to continue seeing her..
Thanks everyone
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