We dated, moved quickly, then she freaked out and said she wasn't ready for dating and has commitment phobia?

Anonymous
So I met this girl online about 2 months ago where she actually pursued me from the beginning. We quickly began talking and went out for some first dates that went so incredibly well that we talked for hours. She had mentioned that she broke up with a guy of 5 years about 6 months ago who she later found out cheated on her and moved in with another girl after a month. After four weeks she invited me to a wedding and brought me to met her parents. I went with this and knew that after just a month or so that this was a little soon. So I met them and went to this wedding. The next night we went out to dinner with her best friends and then to a party after where I was introduced to a few people as her boyfriend, which we never discussed but I liked her so I didn’t care. At this point I liked her a lot and told her I wanted her to meet my parents as well across state and she had been OK with it. Things were still going well. She showed her interest because she would rearrange her nights to make time for me because she said it wasn’t fair to me to not make time. She also at one point wanted to join a gym with me and take a day off work together to spend time. I was like, wow this girl is into me. So one night we made dinner together and she said she missed kissing me and asked how much I missed her, since being away for two days. She also asked if I was going to keep her around so I figured these were hints she really likes me. Everything was good until about 2 days later which was the night before we were supposed to see my parents and she told me that she was having second thoughts about meeting my parents and didn’t know if it was because she was so overwhelmed with work ( she was busy at work) but was freaking out and that we might be moving too fast. We talked that night and then continued our conversation the next morning and she basically said that she is having commitment phobia issues and thinks that she might not be ready to date right now after moving so fast and the reality hit her with meeting parents. She said she is scared to hurt me like she was hurt by her ex. Not the cheating thing but more so her not being ready to commit yet. I asked her how she went from acting like she liked me so much to saying she wasn’t ready and afraid to commit within two days. She said her feelings were true and she just said she isn’t in a place right now to date with work being overwhelming and the thoughts of us dating for 6-7 more months and her hurting me because she isn’t ready.

Is this an excuse to break up? Is there a possibility she isn’t ready? Is she afraid to get hurt again and pushing me away? I asked to stay in touch she said yes. She said she didn’t want to promise how long she feels this way yet I wasn’t placed in the friend category. She said she thinks were good together but isn’t ready to date right now at all. She did say that she isn’t dating anyone else and if she was going to date it would be me. Am I looking too far into this? She said this was the truth. Do I email her? Stay in touch or move on?

We dated, moved quickly, then she freaked out and said she wasn't ready for dating and has commitment phobia?
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