After the 3rd date, why did he go back to online dating site? Please help.

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I met this guy 2 weeks ago. All three dates went very well. He was very romantic, attentive and told me he likes me. A true gentleman and didn't kiss till third date. Lots of kissing and making out on third date. He then went on a business trip last Friday (told me 4 days) and that he will email me while away. After he "came back" Tuesday I saw that he went back on to the online dating site. I think he also saw me online, then emailed me a nice, sweet, teasing email but didn't say when he will be back or when we will meet again. But did say hope to see me really soon.

I am the first girl he took out from online dating, so I am wondering if he wants to see what else is out there since he is old fashion and if anything the next date would mean we would take it to the next step (be it exclusivity or sex) and if he that felt it went too smoothly and/or too quickly.

I did email him back with a simple and cute email, but not demanding.

Any suggestions would be great. Thank you.
He is no longer interested, move on.
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He is checking out other options. Let him alone, he will come back.
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He is checking out other options. He is gone.
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Updates:
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Hello everyone. He emailed me back and asked me to go out this Sunday or next week...i supposed its a good sign?


Thank you all for your help.
After the 3rd date, why did he go back to online dating site? Please help.
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