Sent a girl a text asking to hang out but she didn't respond?

[Anonymous]

i asked this girl when she doesn't work and told the three days she doesn't work and hey with a question mark ( texted like a second later), i told her wassup how are u (she didn't tell me) and that were going to a theme park and all she said was oh ok lol then i told her i know u wanted to go and 2hours later she told me yea lol, the next day i told her our friends worked the days she free so i said me and her go do something else and its been like 3 hours and she hasn't responded yet i know she isn't working today cause this is one of the days that she free i texted her at 5 and its now almost 30ms to 8 and no reply should i just like give up? a few days ago we went to a show together at our school as a kinda date not sure but i treated it as one gave her my coat and opend doors and stuff its so hard to read her

[northernligths]

She is either busy or not interested. I think she isn't interested. I would give up. Let her text you if she wants to hang out. You have tried enough and if you keep trying you seem desperate and that's unattractive. Find another girl and forget about her. Delete her number. You have been warned dont be one of those guys who is like awww girls arnt giving me the time of day and they dont like nice guys... stop trying! Pursue women who show an interest and forget about those who dont respond to you. Good luck.

[Asker]

a few days ago me and her went to school play at or school together that SHE suggested that "lets go toegther" than two days later asked if i wanted to ride together. the plans to go to the theme park weren't my idea but the other people told me to ask her if she could go so thats when i asked her what days she works i asked her what day she works and like 10 seconds later she told me Monday and Wednesday hey? why? then i told her lol wassup how are you were going to a theme park we all talked about it before and then a few mins later she said oh okay lol. i told her i know you wanted to go and 2 hours later around at 12am she said lol yea. so next day i message her that the other people can't go the day she is free and some areo ut of town so i suggested that me and her go get some frozen yogert cause we talked about it before i told her 5 and its now 8 and i still have yet to hear from her should i be worried? me and her went together to a show at our school kinda like a date thing w

[northernligths]

So, your saying she hasn't responded in 3 hours? She is either busy or doesn't want to go. Don't text her. Let her text you. See the plans changed you were suppose to go as a group now you wanna go for yogurt alone with her, maybe she doesn't want to. Go do something else keep busy and forget about your phone and stop worrying, you can't do anything... You must wait and see...

[mel0v0]

Maybe you made too many moves. Things like giving her your coat and holding the door for her give her pressure and kind of suffocate her. If i were her, i would feel like, omg this guy do so many things for me its like if i dont date him i would be in trouble or something like that. She is distancing herself with you. Try giving her more space. Dont rush it. Things will happen when it comes to the right time.

[Asker]

the thing is i didn't suggest giving her my coat a group of us were eattnig dinner and she was next to me cold and I don't know somehow me giving her my coat was suggested but the whole she was queit so i gave it to her but i think your right i do feel like im pushing to much

[Asker]

i asked this girl i like and who i think likes me kinda, so i asked her what day she works and like 10 seconds later she told me Monday and Wednesday hey? why? then i told her lol wassup how are you were going to a theme park we all talked about it before and then a few mins later she said oh okay lol. i told her i know you wanted to go and 2 hours later around at 12am she said lol yea. so next day i message her that the other people can't go the day she is free and some areo ut of town so i suggested that me and her go get some frozen yogert cause we talked about it before i told her 5 and its now 8 and i still have yet to hear from her should i be worried? me and her went together to a show at our school kinda like a date thing we didn't specifically say it was one but i treated it like one im so confused

[mel0v0]

The cruel fact may be, she does want to go to the theme park, but not with the wrong people.

[Asker]

those were her friends before they were mine im the new guy in our theater group am i being I've told a girl a whole situation about her at work all about our date how she acts the whole 9 yards and she told me i think this girl has the hots for you but then she throws me a curve balll her friends in our group the guys have said they she is shy and but she told me that she wasn't reserved so i took her words for it but if i dont talk she doesn't talk to she will laugh at my jokes and stuff and will talk about if i ask her something but she doesn't really initiate convos are questions llike that in person, she will screenshot my face in my snapchat stories sometimes its very strang

[Anonymous]

You've asked this question at least twice already. If you're this obsessive with her as you are on here, I'm not surprised she's not interested. You can't smother someone and get anxious when they don't respond right away. You need to have a life where you're not waiting by your phone.

[Anonymous]

I asked this girl to go to the movies with me she told me "I need to ser if I don't have any plans" she read my message but hasn't told me if she wants to go what should I do?

[GA701]

If it's this complicated and you have to analyze it to death, she's not interested. If she was, you'd be getting direct answers without hesitation. You are going to become obsessed and drive yourself nuts.

[thunthunthun]

Who the heck is turning down a trip to a theme park? :o Maybe she isn't interested and is just trying to be nice (failing at it if I do say so myself). Don't waste your time.

[Asker]

she wants to go but the other people are busy the days she doesn't work, so i suggested we go get ice cream since weve talked about getting it before but she has messaged me back yet, when i asked her what day she doesn't work last night she message me back like a second last the two days she was off for example she said " tues and Friday hey?" but i today i told her that we aren't goign that day casue they work on the day she is free but i haven't heard from her and its almost been like 3hrs. when i ask to hang out she always says ok lol when she does turn me she will tell me she can't she already had plans set, she hasn't ever bailed on plans with me before. like when we were makin plans to go to a show together, she implied that lets go together than two days later before the show she asked if i wanted to ride together and the day of the show before i went to pick her up our she told me to let her know by 5 & exactly at 5 she message me

[thunthunthun]

Thats odd. Wait a bit more to see if she responds if not u can just ask her what's really going on