She block me after I ask her to do so because she hurt me, I felt bad and regret it for asking her to do so, will she ever unblock me again?

[Jamesdann]

So guys, recently i met a girl, we connected instantly, we hang out a couple of times, we even kiss but we’re not dating, so i told her that i had feelings for her, she started gaslighting me and told me that its all in my head, she said there was nothing between us, so she block me, i tried reaching out through a mutual friend, i ask how she was doing, i sent her small notes through friend, she told me to get lost, she calls me a psychopath, after 3 months she unblock me, we started talking again, but this time she told me that she misses me and was always thinking about me, we hang out, we hold hands, it was almost like we’re in a relationship even though we’re not, so one day the night after we talk liked we used too, i run into her casually, she didn't even talk to me, i was shock, she said she was really busy and had no time to talk to me i was really upset, then things went bad from there, i was really hurt, i told her to block me because she never cared for me, then she told me to do it instead, i tell her “ you had done it before so why don’t you block me “ then she did block me on whatsapp. Then i felt bad, i regret it, i apologize to her, i sent her text apologizing sincerely for my poor actions, then she told me that she had zero feelings for me, and that not even in my dreams would she had feelings for me, she calls me disgusting and again she calls me a psychopath, i miss her a lot, but it hurts when she says all those words, i would never expect it from someone whom is very dear to me to say something like that, i’m still block, i wish her for Christmas and new year from my family numbers then she block those too, should i give up or should i reach out and apologize, i felt like it was my mistake for asking her to block me?

[Screenwriter]

Your mistake is pursuing someone who says she has no interest in you and is offended that you continue to pursue a relationship with her, and calls you a psycho.

Something is wrong with you that you cannot hear her very clear "NO! STOP."

[Jamesdann]

The thing is, yes right for the first time she did'nt showed any interest so she block me, and i get on with my life, after 3 months she unblock me started showing interest and i tried to played it cool then she started saying why i never pursued her, i told her how can i? you block me remember? then things went south from there, she did something that upsetted me, i told her why don't you just block me if you really didn't care for me, so she did, then i felt really bad, so i reach out through other ways then she lash out at me and tell me get lost and she had no interest whatsoever, its like i'm dealing with two kind of personalities with her you know.

[Screenwriter]

James, if someone says "No," then, strangely, says "Yes," three months later, then thing go "South," so you ask her to block you, which she does..., doesn't this give you an idea that this, whatever you want to call it, isn't working?

You're the second man on here who has been pursuing a woman who shows no interest and when you SHOW interest, she runs off.

There are many women who like the IDEA of being pursued, even when they have no actual interest in the pursuer. They like the attention. They like knowing someone is fascinated with them. It's called Narcissism. And she does sound like some form of a psycho.

If you ever, EVER run into this kind of treatment again, you'll recognize it immediately, and ghost this person. This is ONE time when it's called for.

[Jamesdann]

I appreciate your insights, somehow it does seems to be like that, i think she had other guys that were pursuing her too, i have should caught the red flag from the get go but i was too occupied with whatever i felt in her, she calls me a psycho which immediately turns me off and hurt me a lot, i think i should block her too this time, for my own good, see how it goes the other way around. I think blocking is really immature to start with, i mean of course if a person really threatens your life or well being, he definitely qualifies for a psychopath but all I've done is showing her the love and care that I've been feeling.

[Screenwriter]

Blocking someone isn't immature if you want no further contact with them. Then, it IS the thing to do. She sounds messed up. Find someone who IS attracted to you and who enjoys you for who you are. Good luck...

[Yoursweetgirl]

Tbh I don't think she'll ever unblock on her own, try approaching her with different socials, if you want to contact

[Vikkrram]

The worst thing is to block someone instead of that make clear to them that i am not interested in you or you have hurt me

[strateguy632]

she will not unblock again, because you said to block and she did.

[Bendi21]

Bro, even if she unblocked u, u wanna spend time with a girl like that? That's such a toxic relationship, just fuck her and forget her.

[kingmaker21]

Just because you love her you don't have to kiss her feet...
Be a man dude she is playing you.

[HelpfulWoman]

if she has any brain cells, she won't.