Do you think a woman who can’t find anyone to want to marry her is worthless and has failed as a woman?

[Anonymous]

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Thank you guys for your answers. This makes me feel so much better and more hopeful that there are so many good people out there. ❤️ 🫶

[PlacentaSalad]

While it's fine if you do want to be a wife someday, I think you might be tying your own worth or value a little too much to that and marriage. There's plenty of people who are unmarried even after the midpoint of their life, whether by choice, because they've been divorced and haven't remarried, or because they just haven't found somebody worth marrying yet. That includes men as well.

I doubt most guys you might go on a date with are going to wonder why you've never been married before, in fact; if they're on a date with you hoping that you already are married then it's probably not a guy you want to continue pursuing. Regardless, the thought in their mind isn't going to be along the lines of "Wow, this woman has never been married? She's worthless and has failed as a woman."

No, I've never met a dude who genuinely holds this opinion towards women and I don't think it's a common opinion in general because a lot of things can happen to explain why somebody isn't married or hasn't yet married. And just because somebody in the past hasn't proposed to you doesn't mean it's because you aren't deemed 'wife material.'

Women who want to be wives enough to also consider it part of her purpose is already a good step to being wife material, you just need to find a man who is husband material while not rushing into anything.

[Anonymous]

No. I think it comes down to two possible reasons, possibly both. 1. You're choosing the wrong men because you simply don't know what to look for. Because potentially you don't know what a quality man looks and acts like 2. Your expectations are ridiculous and you will stay single as long as you continue you to adhere to them.

Now it's up to you to figure which it is or both. We can help, but only YOU can fix it.

It is also possible You're just meant to be single. But based on your question I'm operating from the assumption that you truly want to get married, are really willing to put the effort forth to achieve that end and not just giving lip service like many women today. Nothing worth having is ever easy.

[Midnight_Kiss]

We're in the 21st century, a woman not marrying doesn't equate to being worthless in any way.

Also marriage has lost all meaning because people do it for the sake of it these days due to divorce being so readily available.

[Anonymous]

No I think it's a cultural thing you're not worthless. What does a man bring that you cannt bring to the world yourself? What does he add to your life?

[worldscolide]

Its just SUPER hard to find the right person. i was 29 before i found the right one. Not being able to find a partner has nothing to do with your worth as a person.

[Asker]

I find it impossible :(. I am also feeling too damaged to find a good man who’d want to commit to me.

[Fireguy17]

Nope, not at all.
She is either dating the wrong type, or looking in the wrong places.
I believe that there is someone for every one.

[Hithere4567]

No, it's just hard to find the right person, sometimes. 🙂

[Asker]

I’m feeling super hopeless. I was in a relationship recently with a narcissist and he drained me. I am worried I’ll never find someone.

[Hithere4567]

That's because you're better than that. Who wants some narcissistic jerk? You need to find a better man because you're a better woman and you deserve better. There are better guys than that. 🙂

[Asker]

Thank you so much ❤️ I just like to be around good people. I’m hurting so much - I just went out for a bit and my whole face is puffy from crying so much.

[Hithere4567]

I'm sorry it hurt so much. I've been there too, so I know you feel. It's tough to be judged like that. Just remember that bad/low guys don't like good women like you who are better than they are. 🙂

[SClassWizzard]

No.

Because its the MAN decides who he wants to marry and when.

[Donald1_4]

No I think that maybe isn't really ready to make that happen, because not really sure if they are ready to to take on the responsibility, or fully deal with any commitments yet

[elontesler3]

thats the plot to the tv show The Nanny. trust me, i invented the Tesler Sibertruck, SpaceseX, and i own Twatter.

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. A lot of men don't want to get married.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You don't need no man

[Avicenna]

Of course not