Going cold on a girl when she treats u like an option?

[Anonymous]

Why do girls do this?

She seemed really into me?

Then into others too like a competition

I say goodbye and walked away disappear

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9 mo

Why do this

[Anonymous]

“Seem” is an assumption, not an answer, not a fact, so how can you know she’s going cold or if you have just misread her behavior entirely? If I were you I’d rather have either asked how she felt about you, or make a move if you know there’s feelings on your end. You’re building her whole character around thoughts and opinions, when your cowardice keeps you from getting some actual clarity.

[Asker]

I am the one going cold because I will not be treated like an option and can move on where I won't be an option this is my point

[Opinion Owner]

Does she know you have romantic interest in her? And by this I mean you’ve verbally stated it? Not hinting, suggesting, etc, actually saying “hey I really like you” or something to that extent?

[Opinion Owner]

It’s fine to go cold if she isn’t reciprocating the feelings that you’ve told her you have, but otherwise it’s completely unfair to say she’s treating you like an option if she doesn’t even know you like her.

[Asker]

Ya she knew I liked her and got with other guys best of luck with that and liked to rub it in my face also with the other guys.

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, so if she knew you liked her and didn’t feel the same, then just accept it and move on. Like you said, best of luck to her future endeavors, now let go and focus on yours.

[HappyWoman34]

Maybe she preferred you but was interested in a few people at once? That happens sometimes. Then you blew it out of fear and ignorance.

[KrakenAttackin]

Because can. And you should not tolerate this behavior. This is how women build their friend zone bench.

[Asker]

Exactly

[virtualwasp]

no idea ask her

[Anonymous]

Cos you're not her boyfriend?

[Asker]

Doesn't matter why play games with people
It's one boyfriend down.

[Opinion Owner]

How is she playing games with you? Did she tell you that she loves you and sees you two in a relationship?

[KrakenAttackin]

Anonymous... you are getting too old for games like this. The wall is fast approaching.

[Asker]

@KrakenAttackin 😂😂

[KrakenAttackin]

Asker. She thinks she can play "hot little cock tease" forever, but her time is just about up.

[Asker]

@KrakenAttackin hahahahaa

[Opinion Owner]

@krakenattackin dude I still look like a highschooler 🤣🤣
U do realize women could lose interest in a guy, right? That's not teasing. 🤦‍♀️