My girlfriend treats me like an option?

[Teon1985]

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year, she is smart beautiful, but the truth is I don't feel appreciated it's like when she wants to see me I must drop everything and come see her and if I don't it's a problem and when I want to see her and she don't want to see me if I insist she says I am selfish, she says she wants her space and when I give her that she accusses me of cheating , she says I am heartless and that we are drifting apart. She would call me to come by her in the nights and hurry me out in the morning, and when I speak to her about it she gets upset, in my opinion she treats me like a boy toy I don't know if because of the fact I am 13 years younger than her , I honestly want to leave, the funny thing is she professes to me about how much she loves me but the reality is I don't feel love and appreciated, what must I do?

[conflictedsoul22]

So it could go one of two ways where she's actually using you and is a women who doesn't want any sort of ties with a man. Or she's playing mind games and wants to see how far you'll go for her. She scared of rejection and wants to make it seem as if your a fling until she feels secure. But yet again its been a year so i dont know what she's thinking at this point. If your really read

[sweetbaaby]

Sounds like she has some issues that she needs to deal with, I would advise you get out of that situation.

[Thedisturbed1]

She is just acting like she doesn't need you. Just take a break from her.

[Midget_Hug]

You're a doormat

[Teon1985]

Sad but true

[Midget_Hug]

So now what?

[Teon1985]

How do I just walk away I fell in love with her, so funny thing in life is that sometimes the people we love the most treats us the worst

[Midget_Hug]

Why walk away? Just learn to say no.