Girlfriend giving me attitude out of nowhere?

[Anonymous]

So with my girlfriend the last two days were really good we had a lot of fun together, chatted, hanged out then we came home last night it was still fine we were tired so we lied down and she said im going to watch some tiktok and while she was watching it i fell asleep because i had slept only 2 hours that day. Then she woke me up we laughed she mocked me we laughed again. After that she told me that i need to sleep and continued to watch tiktok but i wanted to spend time together so i tried to open some talk about random things then she said i want to watch tiktok by myself i am tired and turned the other way in bed. Since that she was cold to me i asked whats wrong she said nothing then i said something is wrong she answered no then started to ignore my talking. This morning i thought it is solved it was just tiredness but she was still cold she was going to meet a girlfriend of hers outside and i thought of getting her heart by cleaning and tidying the whole house but the girl that she is going to meet said that let’s meet at your house then i said then let me leave and you two talk comfortably she was ok. After that she got angry to another thing and before i left i said we are going to talk today right? She said no i don’t want to i asked what did i do she said nothing. And told me to leave. My mind is eating itself and i really care so much about her so i need to solve this today right now i am in a cafe near her house im going to wait a few hours for her friends to leave then go and try to talk and i wanted to take some advices from here too.

[_Maya_]

I guess I am not sure what you are asking us to answer. I don't really see a question. Are you asking us what you should do? If so you clearly have your own plan as I read at the very end of your post. You are at a cafe near her house and waiting for her friends to leave. How will you know for sure when they are gone? Are you spying on her and her friends? Something seems off and just from reading your post you seem like you are the suffocating type. You wouldn't just let her be and enjoy some alone time (even though you were both in bed) enjoying whatever it was she was watching. You kept waking up and wanting to talk to her when she just wanted to do her own thing. Now you are creeping on her from a nearby cafe. You have all the vibes of an overbearing boyfriend and that is likely the issue here.

[Asker]

Im not doing a thing like that not spying or anything i don’t even know when her friends will leave and i can’t see her house from here too its like 12 min walk from there i will just assume that she will leave in a few hours cause they are not that close

[Asker]

But i thought and agree with you in alone time thing it was my mistake

[Nikki1989]

You both need to grow up.

The part about TikTok was all I needed to read here. Jeez!

[Abbycado]

Bro, you are the problem, not her. Let her breathe ffs. I agree with other poster.

[In_Trance]

So what is your question?