Is my gf being inconsiderate or this is common among girls?

[RossCanal]

On Sunday, my gf was kinda of drunk and I overheard her saying private stuff about us to her friends such as how I'm only 6 inches and she has to fake it many times, how I don't take her out too much anymore because of work but said something that wished I haven't heard. In her own heard ''But there is something good though, I took his V-card, had to insist though and went on saying how I was difficult to get to have sex with unlike other guys who just pressure and just do it''.

Now this is getting me pissed off and again I'm going back in time to last year when she made me feel very uncomfortable. It was the 2nd month of our relationship at that time and she kept saying things like ''Damn, you're different what will it take you to have sex with me''. Insulted, we had sex the following week, the most horrible sex ever for me. I was very upset and didn't speak until the following day.

I was already forgetting this and she brought it back to my memory again. Is this how a gf behave?

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I never tell others about her private stuff. Why did she told her friends I was a virgin and a bunch of nonsense? I'm I right to be pissed off?

[Anonymous]

yeah you are totally right to be pissed off. she should not be saying any of that stuff to her friends, let alone at all. it's none of their business and frankly she doesn't sound nice even a little. she pressured you into having sex with which is bad in itself and now she's bragging about takingyour virginity, which is terrible. personally, i think that thats a private matter that should be kept between two people especially cause its a special thing. and yeah, i know that some girls like discussing all aspects of their relationship wth their friends but i dont think its ok. once again, thats something personal that stays between two people and it shouldn't be out there for the world to know. im sorry she made you feel bad and pressured you into sleeping with her cause thats a sh*tty thing to do. also "only 6 inches" psht 6 inches is a nice sized dick

[RossCanal]

Yes, I'm going to have a serious discussion with her.

[Opinion Owner]

thats a good idea

[Willow4]

No I think she's being inconsiderate, she doesn't seem to be able to grasp the fact that not all men are the same and it is therefore unfair and ignorant to expect you to do or be things that other guys were.

I know a lot of girls like to discuss their relationships with fellow girl friends but even if I did that (most of my friends are male lol) I would feel really guilty being so rude and mean about my bf. I'd care about him and his feelings enough to not wave our sex lives in their faces and talk about him behind his back.

[doveylovey]

She should spare a thought for your pride...

Let her know what she said, even though she's drunk. being drunk doesn't give u the right to do silly things. u dont sleep ard and say "oh i was drunk i didn't know" either!

ask her if she meant what she said, ask tactfully though...gna be not a nice conversation to have

[Kingzero000]

All these people saying "she was drunk give her a pass". Alcohol just removes your filter, even if smashed completely its still not an excuse. Bro you have to end relationships like this. If she tells her friends this stuff drunk , she does it sober, alcohol i not the magic get out jail free card. If you got drunk and told your friends she was a bitch with a gaping vagina and she overheard it , you think you'd get a pass? Ladies would he get a pass?

[apropos]

She sounds rude.

It's not how my girlfriend would behave, because she wouldn't be my girlfriend very long.

[abundantlyrich]

Alcohol is like a truth serum, it will reveal their inner thoughts out in the open. :)

It's not her fault, she couldn't control if she has been holding it for so long in her heart. And Alcohol did the job of unveiling her truth about you.

[Anonymous]

I find that completely unacceptable!!
It is very inconsiderate, rude and immature. you have every right to be pissed off. I am sorry she has treated you so poorly

[RossCanal]

It is very rude. I don't get why she had to tell her friends if I'm not satisfying her. She could have told me and we would be working on those issues. I don't find being drunk an excuse either.

[Opinion Owner]

No being drunk is not an excuse. From what you said in your post it also does not sound like this is her first and only time being inconsiderate. she should not have pressured you to have sex. even if you wanted to and thought you were ready those comments she made to you about it were rude and insensitive. She sounds like she either doesn't think about your feelings or care about them. I am sorry if I am sounding harsh but no one deserves that.

[Anonymous]

You state that she was drunk. I'd blame the alcohol for this one...if she does it sober, that's another issue.

[Le_Franglais]

Drunkenness is a pathetic excuse.

[Opinion Owner]

It is but it's viable nonetheless.

[Anonymous]

She was just drunk and not in control of herself. Give her a pass this once

[RossCanal]

I will just this time and only because she was drunk. But still, now I'm questioning how true is everything she said and how she feels overall.

[sweetycakes]

I tell lies when I'm drunk a lot of them

[RossCanal]

She didn't sound like she was joking. She seemed serious when she was telling them all that.

[justanotheruser]

She was drunk...

[Le_Franglais]

Being drunk should never be an excuse.

[justanotheruser]

You don't know what people do when they're drunk , you think this is even close to be a serious consequence of drinking. She should just stop drinking.