Is it wise to disclose to a girl on how much I actually make at my job?

[LadiesFavoriteToy]

I don't think it really matters but let's just say I am 6 months into this job and have already cleared 90 K gross. I am thinking of not telling her because I am afraid that I might offend her or soemthing...

[Alli39]

I mean, a) don't be telling strangers exactly how much you make (it's fine to safe something more like "I do well for myself" or "I'm comfortable" if she asks for some reasons, but numbers are unnecessary), and b) why would your income be offensive? If anything you'd probably be more concerned with running into gold diggers or whatever if you happen to be making bank.

[Anonymous]

What relevancy does that information have to dating? Unless she’s a gold digger or whatever then your finances aren’t something you need to disclose right away. Conversations like that are for when more serious things happen, like you wanna move in together, because at that point what you make and what you two can afford actually matters.

[slatyb]

There's no reason to tell her this until you are thinking of combining households -- getting married, or just deciding that you will stay together and will be sharing some expenses.

[Billlewis]

Unless you're planning on becoming an obedient pay pig for her, I'd probably keep that to myself.

[Randomnamek]

You should not tell her how much you make until y'all deep in a relationship and discussing marriage