Crush stopped staring at me?

[Anonymous]

i left a girl on read twice to play hard to get and she stopped staring at me in person. we haven’t talked in person yet but she seemed kinda distant when i we saw each other. what should i do

[Anonymous]

Probably stopped liking you. ﾠ

[Anonymous]

Leaving someone on read, especially multiple times, is generally not a good way to play "hard to get" and can come across as dismissive or rude. Here are some things to consider:

• When people are left on read, it often makes them feel ignored, confused or like the other person isn't really interested. This is a common reaction.

• Stopping making eye contact or being more distant is a natural way for someone to pull back when they feel rejected or that the other person isn't that into them.

• Playing "hard to get" often backfires and has the opposite of the intended effect. It can breed misunderstanding, hurt feelings and kill initial attraction or interest.

• You run the risk of the person moving on and losing interest altogether if they feel rejected for too long. The window of opportunity closes quickly.

• Ignoring someone is generally not an effective way to attract or impress them. Open, honest and clear communication works much better.

• Leaving someone on read can come across as immature or game-playing, which is a turn-off for many people. It implies a lack of confidence or emotional maturity.

At this point, the best move would be to apologize and be straightforward. You could say something like:

"I'm sorry for leaving you on read before. That was immature of me. I'd actually like to get to know you. Would you be open to grabbing a coffee and talking in person?"

Keep it simple, sincere and to the point. From there, you can gauge her interest level based on her response. If she says yes, use the in-person interaction as an opportunity to talk and connect without any games. I'd really recommend being direct and straightforward going forward to

someone on read, especially multiple times, is generally not a good way to play "hard to get" and can come across as dismissive or rude. Here are some things to consider:

• When people are left on read, it often makes them feel ignored, confused or like the other person isn't really interested. This is a common reaction.

• Stopping making eye contact or being more distant is a natural way for someone to pull back when they feel rejected or that the other person isn't that into them.

• Playing "hard to get" often backfires and has the opposite of the intended effect. It can breed misunderstanding, hurt feelings and kill initial attraction or interest.

• You run the risk of the person moving on and losing interest altogether if they feel rejected for too long. The window of opportunity closes quickly.

• Ignoring someone is generally not an effective way to attract or impress them. Open, honest and clear communication works much better.

• Leaving someone on read can come across as immature or game-playing, which is a turn-off for many people. It implies a lack of confidence or emotional maturity.

At this point, the best move would be to apologize and be straightforward. You could say something like:

"I'm sorry for leaving you on read before. That was immature of me. I'd actually like to get to know you. Would you be open to grabbing a coffee and talking in person?"

Keep it simple, sincere and to the point. From there, you can gauge her interest level based on her response. If she says yes, use the in-person interaction as an opportunity to talk and connect without any games. I'd really recommend being direct and straightforward going forward to

someone on read, especially multiple times, is generally not a good way to play "hard to get" and can come across as dismissive or rude. Here are some things to consider:

• When people are left on read, it often makes them feel ignored, confused or like the other person isn't really interested. This is a common reaction.

• Stopping making eye contact or being more distant is a natural way for someone to pull back when they feel rejected or that the other person isn't that into them.

• Playing "hard to get" often backfires and has the opposite of the intended effect. It can breed misunderstanding, hurt feelings and kill initial attraction or interest.

• You run the risk of the person moving on and losing interest altogether if they feel rejected for too long. The window of opportunity closes quickly.

• Ignoring someone is generally not an effective way to attract or impress them. Open, honest and clear communication works much better.

• Leaving someone on read can come across as immature or game-playing, which is a turn-off for many people. It implies a lack of confidence or emotional maturity.

At this point, the best move would be to apologize and be straightforward. You could say something like:

"I'm sorry for leaving you on read before. That was immature of me. I'd actually like to get to know you. Would you be open to grabbing a coffee and talking in person?"

Keep it simple, sincere and to the point. From there, you can gauge her interest level based on her response. If she says yes, use the in-person interaction as an opportunity to talk and connect without any games. I'd really recommend being direct and straightforward going forward to

[Oliverlogan263]

Leaving someone on read, especially multiple times, is generally not a good way to play "hard to get" and can come across as dismissive or rude. Here are some things to consider:

• When people are left on read, it often makes them feel ignored, confused or like the other person isn't really interested. This is a common reaction.

• Stopping making eye contact or being more distant is a natural way for someone to pull back when they feel rejected or that the other person isn't that into them.

• Playing "hard to get" often backfires and has the opposite of the intended effect. It can breed misunderstanding, hurt feelings and kill initial attraction or interest.

• You run the risk of the person moving on and losing interest altogether if they feel rejected for too long. The window of opportunity closes quickly.

• Ignoring someone is generally not an effective way to attract or impress them. Open, honest and clear communication works much better.

• Leaving someone on read can come across as immature or game-playing, which is a turn-off for many people. It implies a lack of confidence or emotional maturity.

At this point, the best move would be to apologize and be straightforward. You could say something like:

"I'm sorry for leaving you on read before. That was immature of me. I'd actually like to get to know you. Would you be open to grabbing a coffee and talking in person?"

Keep it simple, sincere and to the point. From there, you can gauge her interest level based on her response. If she says yes, use the in-person interaction as an opportunity to talk and connect without any games. I'd really recommend being direct and straightforward going forward to avoid further misunderstandings. Let me know if you have any other questions!

[Asker]

thank you so much

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome

[ProbablyClueless]

You could try talking to her?

[Anonymous]

Playing hard to get is not interested to many