Why do woman act very snobbish towards me right from the get go?

[Anonymous]

I've noticed that this happens a lot more than I'd like

I'm not openly flirting or trying to talk to them but they get very snobbish if we happen to cross paths

[Anonymous]

It's in your head

[Opinion Owner]

Or maybe you smell bad

[Asker]

Snobbish as In if we walk by each other or come close into eye contact

They either scowl... look away... or roll their eyes

[Opinion Owner]

Look away? Are they supposed to intently stare into your eyes? This confirms this is definitely in your head.

I sometimes walk on a this trail near my house, most people are very friendly and will say "hi, how are you?" And it won't register that they are talking to me until they are too far away, or I see someone smiling at me from the corner of my eye, waiting for me to look at them so they can say hi, but I'll just focus my eye straight ahead.

This doesn't make me snobbish, it makes me socially awkward.

[Opinion Owner]

You even said that you don't flirt or initiate any sort of conversation with them... Are you the only person allowed to mind their own business and not talk to strangers that pass you?

[Asker]

Oh id definitely would of liked you to witness all the drama that took place for me back in 2011-2016

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not even trying to be a dick, but if women are constantly going out of their way to be terrible to you, you're doing something to get this reaction. Most people don't pay attention to other people, at all.

Or... it's in your head.

[Asker]

Not woman specifically but also men... hence a lot of drama that took place in 2011-2016 (community HS/different neighborhoods/therapy/acquaintances

[Opinion Owner]

I believe you have had a few experiences with miserable/nasty people and because of this you're extremely insecure

[Opinion Owner]

So you're just imagining all of this

[Asker]

Don't judge... you act as if you were there... arrogance at its best

[Asker]

Even the way you phrased "I believe" as if you know me or my entire life & trust me... if you did you wouldn't even want to keep me in your circle (barely have one)

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know you. All I have to go on are the words you write down, and you have given me nothing to suggest that I should believe you. What you describe, sounds very unlikely and you're just lacking self awareness.

You're right tho, I wouldn't keep you in my circle. I just tried to give a possible (not definite reason. I never said what I believe IS undoubtedly true) and you got angry, are acting like a child, and told me I'm "arrogant"

Life is too short for that and nobody is going to put up with it for long. Be a man and figure your shit out.

[Opinion Owner]

And by the way ignoring every question I asked you so you can just proceed to whine some more isn't going to change my mind. Lol

[Asker]

I just find it odd that most introverts that I met (by chance) never had heard or witnessed any of the types of drama I had coming towards me

I'm an introvert by the way who (by chance) happened to stumble across many different types of people that eventually lead to a lot of petty drama

Again.. your acting as if you were there... not everyone lives relatively "normal" lives... you need to really get out more

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not acting like I was there. I just explained why believe it's in your head.

Your "evidence" was "I don't make any effort to be friendly to women, so in return, they don't go out of their way to be friendly to me. They just look away"

I explained that if you gave ME a head nod, smile, or said hi, I would probably react the same way (and the reason for it), and you'd think I was being rude as well. Ignored.

I asked why is it acceptable for you to not try to approach/say hi to these women, but they are "snobs" according to you, for doing the same thing that you're doing. Ignored. Again.

And now I'm "arrogant" because I made an assumption based off the limited information I was given, but it's ok for you to make assumptions about me, and claim that I don't get out enough.

The way you handled this conversation just suggests that you're whiney, lack self awareness, and are a hypocrite. Why should I take your word about any claim you make?

[Opinion Owner]

This is my last response. Whatever, you win- everyone you cross paths with is disgusted by you just existing. It isn't in your head, and it has nothing to do with your behavior.

Apparently that's all you wanted to hear, so there you go. Have fun with your victim shit.