Is it okay to body-shame if the girl was very mean to you?

[Anonymous]

Few years ago I went on several dates with a girl who admitted to her friends (I was told later) that I was being used for food, rides, and gifts and she said that she'll dump me after the holiday season is over. I got to know about it after the breakup where she made up a reason and broke up.

Few years later (yesterday) I see this girl, she was voluptuous before, but now she's overweight and really lost her looks. I wanted to know if purely to satisfy my ego or vengeance can I make fun of her in public because since then I've worked on myself gotten a job, built a physique, etc.

Yes

No

[BasedBaeBecca]

Okay, I'm not saying that you shouldn't have your satisfaction.
But to shame her out loud and publicly will just be low.

Maybe you could write the things you might say in a journal and keep it for yourself. That's fine. But don't tell it out loud to her face!

Maybe it's good karma that she got what she really deserves in the end.

[ShesRad80]

wasting time doing that would show you cared enough to do it and just why? you are going to be the ahole people will see, so why even stoop that low?

[inhua]

Mother Nature will shame her when she runs of breath while walking

[slatyb]

Follow Michelle Obama's advice: "They go low, we go high"

[Anemone978]

You can do whatever you want.. It probably won't make you feel any better though.. but it might be fun :D

[EmmaMary]

You've got absolutely nothing to gain from being vengeful, so just let it pass and move on with your life.

[Anonymous]

nooo too much time has past, you'd be behaving like a 10 year old lol. can't believe you in your 30s and asking this..

if it was yesterday she did that then it would be kinda okay though. mean fat bitches can be bullied for being fat

[Anemone978]

but skinny bitches who got fat can't be bullied? lol

[Opinion Owner]

@Anemone978 i never said that. just said as a general rule if a girl is fat and she's a bitch you have a free pass to bully her on her weight

[Adaeva]

Don't be the fool that wastes his time over useless revenge.

[HelpfulWoman]

Not since it's been a few years. That just means you're a blatant weirdo who also is a butthole.

[Throwawaynowknow]

It would be silly to do so in my opinion. It was years ago, and to do so would suggest that you still butt heart about being played.

[Anonymous]

Maybe if you do it subtly and sarcastically. You want to plant seeds that it very noticeable how fat she is without actually saying she's fat. I mean, she knows she's fat😆

[Anonymous]

Are you a child?

[Grovermint]

Just move on, yo.