Girls, 'Pantsing' a Girl after she did it to me?

[Anonymous]

I have a large group of friends where we all usually hang out together. One of my friends in the group is a girl, who I guess to be funny, has 'pantsed' me (pulled my pants down) twice in front of everyone. Needless to say, everyone in the group has seen me standing there in my boxer-briefs.

I was talking with two friends, one of them said I should pants her back, since she did it to me. But the other said it wouldn't be right to pants a girl in front of everyone.

What do you think? Should I pants her since she did it to me? Or would it be wrong for a guy to do that to a girl?

You can pants her back, it's only fair.

No, a guy shouldn't pants a girl even if she did it to him.

[shadowlegend]

No. You've known each other for years andyou see each other regu

[shadowlegend]

regularly*, she said no because she simply isn't interested in you like that.

[Asker]

I'm confused? Did you read the post? I not asking about being interested in her.

[shadowlegend]

Yeah this one posted to the wrong question, it glitched. As for pulling her pants down, a) that makes you just a shitty person as her if you do and b) you should know better because it did happen to you. So have some maturity and integrity and don't repeat stupid bully behaviour.

[Asker]

Okay thanks. So you would say that is the right thing to do regardless of whether she was a girl or guy, correct?

[shadowlegend]

Absolutely. Gender is irrelevant. She's a bully and repeating that behaviour would be as low an act as hers was. Be above it.

[Kitten967]

You sound like you're all very childish

[Asker]

Thanks for the helpful comment. So if you were me... what would you do?

[Kitten967]

I'd leave her be or talk to her about it.

[Asker]

Ok. So you wouldn't do it to her back?

[Kitten967]

No I wouldn't

[Asker]

You wouldn't because she is a girl? Or you wouldn't in general?

[Kitten967]

I wouldn't in general, I'm not that childish