Girls, Which guys behaviour would you like more and why?

[cyclingkmi]

Suppose there are two guys at your work place and both are of your age group , given both are almost similar in terms of looks/height etc..

But they behave differently as in:

A.) Guy A greets you/smiles initially in the day , takes every opportunity to make a conversation with you, be next to you , makes regular eye contact whenever necessary, talks other things as well apart from work.

B.) Guy B rarely tries to greet you /pass a smile by himself. If you greet him he simply replies back. Never tries to talk to you or have a conversation with you. Mostly tries to ignore you/ you presence and doesn't make any eye contact unless very necessary for work.

I much prefer behaviour of Guy A

I much prefer behaviour of Guy B

[Enaya]

I am pretty cetain Guy B likes me in this scenario much more than Guy A and is just frozen solid from fear. I know the type as an introvert. I am wary of Guy A before players often have no trouble showing more effort. So if Guy B is receptive to me and makes more effort, I would be interested in Guy B. Dealing with a Guy B right now actually. He is actually an extrovert who loses it when I am around and just freezes. It’s the cutest thing ever.

[cyclingkmi]

Did you vote?

[Enaya]

Yes, I prefer guy a's behavior but know Guy B is the one who needs to show more emotion

[cyclingkmi]

Ahh. Lol. The answer confuses me now. 😏
Why don't you prefer behaviour of Guy B?

[Enaya]

because Guy B will not confess and the it will go nowhere

[menina]

Obviously it's guy A.

[cyclingkmi]

Does Guy B come off as rude and arrogant person?

[menina]

Yes, he does.

[cyclingkmi]

How can you differentiate between a shy guy and a rude/arrogant guy?

[menina]

A shy guy still talks to you and smiles. An arrogant doesn't.

[cyclingkmi]

If he's too shy and probably has insecurity issues... he won't smile or greet a woman anyway. Agree?

[menina]

No. Being insecure is not a reason to be rude.

[cyclingkmi]

He is shorter than women so he's insecure 😞

[menina]

Please don't come up with this crap again. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[cyclingkmi]

Being shorter than a woman is a HUGE insecurity and inferiority complex for a man.. believe me

[menina]

First of all MOST MEN are TALLER than most women. Second, there are men who are short and they have girlfriends or wives. Third, you just want me to say bad things about short men. I'm NOT going to do that.

[cyclingkmi]

That's the issue for a short man that most men are taller than women , and he is shorter than an average woman , so he feels bad, insecure, unmanly and gets inferiority complex too.
Suppose a guy is just 5'4
An average woman is also around 5'4 and most taller women would be much taller than him

[menina]

So what? He's still a human being, he's still a man. He can get a girlfriend or a wife. He only feels inferior if he wants to. No one is inferior.

[cyclingkmi]

He is still a man? But not manly man. He is weak.. sissy kind of effeminate man since he is shorter than most women and all men
Do you think women in general wouldn't mind such a short man?
Do you know any?
How tall are you?

[menina]

"He is still a man? But not manly man. He is weak.. sissy kind of effeminate man since he is shorter than most women and all men" - That is YOUR opinion. It's NOT the reality. And it's BULLS***!

Yes, I do. Some women don't care about height.
No, I don't know any. But that doesn't mean that they don't exist. There are 8 billion people on planet Earth, I don't know all of them. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️
I already told you that I'm 5'5" (165 cms) . Don't know why are you asking me again. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[cyclingkmi]

Yes.. some women don't care about a man's height... you already said some...
But most do care about a man's height... also most women are taller than 5'4 so he is shorter than most women which effeohis self esteem and psychological health deeply

[menina]

Of course I said "some". Not everyone has the same preferences. So of course some women like short men and some don't.
Again, that's YOUR opinion. It's NOT the REALITY. Listen, if you have self-esteem issues or if you feel inferior because of your height you should look for a therapist. You shouldn't just assume that just because you feel bad about your height, then all women hate short men. That's NOT true at all.

[cyclingkmi]

I don't say women hate short men... but they don't find them masculine, attractive and sexy or desirable at all.
And the thing is it affects the emotional/mental health of the short man... he feels insufficient/unworthy... if he is around any woman and feels insecure and inferior if he is around a taller woman
Are you also ok with more shorter men?

[menina]

"I don't say women hate short men... but they don't find them masculine, attractive and sexy or desirable at all." - YOUR opinion once again.
Again, if you're dealing with mental health issues, you should look for a therapist.
I'm not tall either. 😂😂🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[cyclingkmi]

You are tall (er) for a short man.
at least you aren't short for a woman 👠👠

[menina]

No, I'm not. Only in your mind. 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️
I'm average, not tall.

[cyclingkmi]

Taller than me 😂😁 that's why
by the way what if a guy is shorter as in 5'2 or so?

[menina]

So? Should I get a reward or something? 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🙄🙄
That's his height, nothing wrong.

[cyclingkmi]

Nothing wrong.. but can you bee attracted towards such short guy too?

[gothbxtch]

guy a

[cyclingkmi]

Guy B sounds arrogant?

[Anonymous]

B...

[cyclingkmi]

Wow
Different choice
Why choose B?

[Opinion Owner]

Because he has self discapline which is the most attractive thing a man can have!! He can turn off his emotions when needed and focus on whats needed because as a woman thats something im gonna need in my partner

[cyclingkmi]

But as most others felt he seems unsocial , rude / arrogant type
What do you feel?
Does he come for as somewhat shy or rude?

[Opinion Owner]

Women lie to themselves all the time.

[cyclingkmi]

So you'd be more comfortable with/around Guy B compared to A?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes much more. If I want something serious we will have to be able to separate work life with personal life

[cyclingkmi]

But he doesn't even make eye contact... doesn't initiate conversation..
Then how would there be anything else apart from serious work related talk?

[Opinion Owner]

After work I can give him a sign that I like him. But I try to keep work and private separate

[cyclingkmi]

After work? Where? How?
Would it work?

[Opinion Owner]

Like on our way home I could walk with him try to start a conversation see if he is intressted. Just give small hints

[cyclingkmi]

You feel he'd be comfortable/ walking home with you / a woman? He doesn't sound like this

[Opinion Owner]

Not home with me but walking to the buss together or whatever to get to our own places

[cyclingkmi]

If you find he's just not into this at all? He never talks / meets you apart from office?

[Opinion Owner]

Then I move on

[cyclingkmi]

Would you feel offended and develop some kind of hate for him?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope