If a girl asks to come to my place and I agree, then she asks if her friend could come too, what should I expect?

[hammyputty379]

So a female friend of mine that I like a lot asked to come to my place this Friday night. I agreed and then she asked if she could bring a female friend of hers who I also know, but not as well. I understand the safety concerns, me being a male living alone, but what could her intentions be so I know what to expect? Thank you!

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that could go a few ways man. On one hand, it's totally understandable she'd want to bring a friend for safety in numbers chillin at your place. Could just be that.

But, it also possible her friend tagging along is like a buffer so things don't move too fast alone. Or could be she's interested but nervous, so bringing her buddy makes it lower pressure.

Hard to say for sure what her mindset is. If you like this girl, I'd just play it cool when they're both over. Make sure they both feel welcomed and comfortable. Maybe have some drinks/snacks ready and put on a fun movie or music.

Let the night flow naturally without expecting anything heavy. Who knows, if you vibe well together her friend may peel off after a bit anyway. Just focus on chatting and having a good time with both of them. See where it leads! Good luck dude.

[hammyputty379]

Thank you! I'm so nervous about having them over because I want to give off good vibes. I've never hosted something with such high stakes!!

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo listen homie, don't even trip! Just be your chilled self like always. These girls dig you for a reason so no need to stress.

Plus chicks can smell fear, ya feel me? So keep it player. Crack some jokes, make em laugh - you good at that. Maybe throw on some dope music too to set the vibe.

Also, important - clean yo crib before they get there! Ladies love a dude who keeps it tidy, shows you responsible and all that.

And breathe, bro! Too many dudes get all up in they head before the fun even starts. Just go with the flow and let happen what happens, ya feel?

Either way, you straight. Even if it don't go how you want, at least you got two fine girls in ya spot! So a win is a win homie.

Chin up player. Remember why these girls feelin you, and let that confidence shine through. You got this, a'ight! Now go work that magic.

[serious]

I don't know maybe she is trying to ensure that the boundaries are maintained.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Witness in case you roofie her. Don't sweat it. I think now a days that's probably prudent. Just have fun with both of them and enjoy the night.

[hammyputty379]

Thank you! Will do!!

[DextroShade]

The problem is you are in the friend-zone, so unless she coming over to fuck she is wasting your time, and based on what you said I doubt she is bringing her friend over for a threesome. You can see where it goes but you will probably need to get rid of her.

[Iron_Man]

Safety in numbers it’s easy to figure that out no sex. That’s why she’s bringing her.

[strateguy632]

her intention is feel safer

[strateguy632]

reminds me what 2 girls did to keanu reeves character yikes.

[Huntingnfishin]

Blue balls my friend blue balls