She’s 28 im 30 we both were stoppers at one point in our lives…?

[WilliamMay30]

Should I be getting involved with a girl who’s 28 and was a stripper in her past when I’m definitely seeking long term. Friends for now but I don’t wanna be involved with a girl who sounds like she wants the long term thing but also might screw it up. Any thoughts like actual advice would be nice.

[Adaeva]

It depends on her body count. If it is a high body count, that is not good. Edward Snowden's girlfriend was a poll dancer, a classier version of stripping, and they are doing okay. Girls get into stripping because they need money and, if they are pretty, it is an easy way to earn a lot more money than they could make doing anything else. The main problem is that it is a sleazy environment and for money, they might gradually start doing more and more things than they originally planned.

[Jersey2]

For some reason I am ok with strippers. No prostitutes though or chicks with a high body count. A stripper would be okay but a lot of guys might recognize her so I wouldn’t like to live near where she striped. If you are close you may find it comes out after kids and when they are in school.

[WilliamMay30]

Makes sense I appreciate it thanks!

[lightbulb27]

Check her values character amd emotional stability.


And decide

[exitseven]

What's a stopper?

[WilliamMay30]

I’m was meaning strippers; typo.

[exitseven]

okay, so you bothe were strippers? I guess if you really like her and she does not work in the adult entertainment business anymore I guess you should go for it.