Do extroverted girls tone down their personality when they're with a guy they like?

[chris_987]

Some people say opposites attract, but if you're an extroverted girl and you're with an introverted guy, wouldn't you just walk all over him unless he's extroverted and your extroverted then you just tone down your expressiveness.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, no. I’ve noticed extroverted women don’t do that, but extroverted men do. Introverted women are more likely to tone UP their personality for an extroverted man, same with introverted men once you get to know them. Extroverted women are just the loud b*tch of the pack lol.

[chris_987]

I don't see how that can sustain a relationship though

[Opinion Owner]

Same way groups of friends who are a mix of introvert and extrovert are sustained, what do you mean? Usually introverts date extroverts.

[chris_987]

Friends are different. Obviously you're not expecting anything from your friends, but men and women expect a lot from each other in a relationship. Hopefully I don't have to break that down with those expectations are for you.

[Opinion Owner]

Your problem is you’re thinking too matter of fact about it. Introverted and extroverted are simply parts of your personality. They are not debilitating disabilities that would hugely affect your dating experience. Just like a couple can be together if one is messy and the other tidy, they balance out each-other in ways. Same with a guy into sports, and his wife isn’t whatsoever.
All of my ex boyfriends have been extroverts and I am deeply introverted. I don’t need to date an introverted man and frankly, I don’t want to. My extroverted boyfriends were the ones who got me out of the house doing things, or we would chill and watch movies. You’re also not realizing introverts work retail, do speeches, do plenty of things in the public eye in the first place.

[chris_987]

All of your boyfriends have been extroverted because you don't approach men and news flash. Even extroverted girls don't approach men. So logically what does that tell you about introverted men?

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t care what an introverted man does because I don’t date them. And no, I do not approach men and have no desire to and don’t think women have to. If you’re a man thats introverted and can’t approach a woman online dating is your best option then. This world was made for extroverts convenience and that’s how it’s going to stay.

[chris_987]

" I don't care" yep, anybody that says that, a rule I have is I don't listen to people that don't care.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol then don’t! I was just sharing my opinion. Could care less if you liked it or not 🤷🏻‍♀️

[chris_987]

Sounds like you are only interested in your opinion that's why no one will want to talk to you

[Opinion Owner]

Okay

[Anonymous]

No and s an extrovert, I wouldn't even like an introverted guy.

[chris_987]

That doesn't mean introverted guys aren't in relationships