Am I an asshole if I don’t want to take care of another woman child if she was technically my soulmate why won’t she just leave me alone?

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[ZamerZ]

It's one thing to not wanting to take care of someone else's child and if you don't want that and it makes you uncomfortable, for whatever reason, then there's nothing she can do. It's your decision. But don't try to date her then. She's a mother and only comes with her child, if she has common sense and won't put a guy above her own kid. If you're dating her and can picture a life together, just without the responsibilities that come with a child around, then that's bullshit. No child deserves to be neglected in any way. They deserve love and not feeling like the are an inconvenience.

[Billlewis]

If I really liked her, I'd probably help raise her child, as well.

[Anonymous]

Do you mean another man's child? If so you are not an asshole for not wanting to take care of someone else's child.