Is it weird to still wanna marry a woman who has no interest in being a mother?

[Anonymous]

[Cynicaldreamer]

Why is a woman choosing not to want kids a bad thing?

I hate to burst some of y'alls bubbles, but there are plenty of women out there that not only don't want to be mothers, but hate kids!

And that's okay.
If she's a good woman that's loyal, respectful, cares for you, and makes you happy, not wanting kids is irrelevant.

However! And this is important- if you want kids one day, she is NOT the right woman for you. No matter how much you love or want her, don't marry her hoping that she will change her mind one day. That's not fair to her, or you.

[Azura_88]

Exactly. It's pure manipulation for fulfilling his selfish needs by persuading a woman to take such a dangerous and delicate decision.

[Azura_88]

If someone is loving and pampering a woman just to have kids then it's a trap. He doesn't give af about her health.

[tatianamay]

It’s not weird at all. Don’t worry. But, do you want to be a father? If so, then your choices are different. You’d have to talk to her then or see if maybe in the future she’d change her mind about having children (if you’re interested in having children of course)

[tatianamay]

But just talk to her, communication is really important in a relationship

[Asker]

Thanks, well I personally don't want any but I've had other guys try to convince me that marriage is pointless if we don't have kids and that I should just shack up with her instead.

[tatianamay]

Well, don’t care about your friends. Don’t listen to them. What do YOU want? That’s the most important thing

[Asker]

I've dreamed of getting married since I was little.

[tatianamay]

Well, do you want kids?

[Asker]

Nope.

[tatianamay]

Then marry her! Do not care about what ur friends tell you, don’t let their words affect your decisions. You do you. And by the way, congratulations on the engagement!

[Asker]

Thanks, but there has to be yes first haha.

[tatianamay]

oh oops, sorry. But hey, im sure she'll say yes, dont worry. Good luck!

[MTC29]

Only if you wanna (oh, that was painful to type) have a brat of your own. I have no interest in children, so I focused my attention on professional women who wanted a career... not changing diapers.

[Anonymous]

Its not weird at all. But you have to really be careful with the choice you make in marrying her. Especially if she doesn't want children and you may. Because itll just be a lot of drama

[Opinion Owner]

My wife never wanted children of her own until i brought it up to her that i wanted a baby. Eventually i left to another state and she changed her mind. She now lives with me in a new state and she 2 months pregnant (this after 3 years of marriage) i only brought up that i wanted a baby in the beginning of our marriage and never did after that.

[MeghanL]

Having or not having children is an individual's choice, & others need to respect that.

If a man loves a woman enough to want to marry her, & is willing to accept her choice. & does not make children a condition of marrying her that is between them & it's no one else's business. And no it's not weird.

[Azura_88]

Marriage means UNION BETWEEN 2 COUPLES.
Kids are just a byproduct and a personal choice.
This sick society will peer pressure you into having kids. They don't care if you're broke, not ready or don't like kids, according to them everything will adjust magically and from their perspective you're a despicable person if you don't follow how society works and be 'ordinary' like them.

[Kha0tiic_xo]

No, she just might not want to have children and that's okay as long as you're okay with not having children in the future! If you do want kids then she's probably not the woman you should marry!

[menina]

No at all. Not all women want to have kids and there are also men who are not interested in having them.
However, if you want kids then don't marry her. She won't change her mind.

[Woman1]

Of course not! Just because a couple is married doesn’t mean that they are automatically required to have or want children.

[DizzyDesii]

Its only weird if you have intentions of being a father.

[acooke-13]

That's not weird, but I wouldn't marry someone who didn't want the same things as me

[Grubhub]

Yes, there was a married woman I was seeing from Columbia and she had kids. I was planning on having kids with her. I liked her for her

[Anonymous]

No, it is not weird. Not everyone wants to be a parent

[bamesjond0069]

Yes. Why tf would you marry if not to have kids? Seek help.

[Asker]

Because I love the woman, obviously.

[bamesjond0069]

And so?

[Honesttguy]

Cus u also dont want kids so win win

[Malono]

No if you don't want be a dad either