That's called desperation and settling. Unless you truly love her regardless of what you would have wanted, be careful with that decision. Because marriage is supposed to be forever until you both leave this earth. Don't just up and marry a person whom you have not prepared to share "forever" with. Children is a highly serious topic. And if you really desire children, then please, don't marry a person who doesn't before you get heartbroken. And if she ends up pregnant, what will be her reaction? Is she the type to rush into an abortion and not tell you? God forbid feel neutral towards the child? Or are you just hoping she may change her mind sometime in the future?
Please remember that she is not a teenager anymore, she is an adult. And as both of you are adults, both of you need to make long-term adult decisions. It is still your choice and hers to go through with that, but I personally would not suggest it if you expect to have the future you really want. You're going to have to figure out what she doesn't want to be a mom and make sure there are rational reasons for it and be mindful that while I wouldn't agree with birth control, your sex life may be limited given the fact to lower the risk of pregnancy.
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Well, the real question you have to ask yourself is, do YOU want kids?
If you do, then think about this, you get married, your wife doesn't want kids, you try to change her mind, she gets mad, you get mad, everyone gets frustrated, both of you grow apart, and the marriage ends in divorce.
However, if you are neutral, or at least, you are sure that you do not want kids, or you want kids, but you would be willing to give that up for your fiance, then dont change her mind. Accept the fact that she does not want kids, and be happy with her. I saw your replies to other comments, and you should know that its YOUR life, not anyone else's
Well, not weird to me.
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Just don’t think you’ll change her mind. You’ll only waste each others time.
Do you want kids? You can marry, but you will be void/unhappy.
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