Am I wrong for feeling like my wife is a moron and wanting to leave cause she wants to abort our child because of gender alone, no other reasons?

[Anonymous]

Wife is around 3 months pregnant with our third baby - we have two older boys.
Usually my wife is a sensible person and we get along well.

Recently got to know that we are expecting another little boy. My wife and I wanted some diversity in our family as this was going to be our last baby, so she and I were both a little let down but got over it pretty quickly or so I thought.

My wife today was talking about this with me - how we are expecting yet another boy and she won’t have any daughter to have some girl-bonding at all. She genuinely wanted to raise a daughter. I re-assured her that this baby is what we are blessed with now so let’s focus on him now.

She said, we don’t have to accept this. I was confused. I absolutely lost my mind when she SERIOUSLY suggested abortion and trying again for a girl. I thought she was joking at first but she actually spoke to a doctor about this and scheduled an appointment to discuss fertility concerns after an abortion.

To say I felt betrayed is an understatement. I yelled at her:

“If you think I am going to support this NONSENSE - forget it. This is frankly frivolous and irresponsible and you’d be an absolute moron if you are even considering this”

She started crying and said I was calling her stupid and I asserted damn right I was. She argued she shouldn’t be forced to carry a pregnancy she doesn’t want and I told her fine then - I won’t stay with a woman who thinks it’s okay to kill her own child because of their gender.

She legit started screaming at me and telling me I was invalidating her experience as a woman as our families only have boys and I can’t be bothered to understand her.

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Peach, your comment was removed because you choose to insult me. Good bye

[FunkyMonkee]

How can you tell what it's gonna be in just 3 months? It takes that long for the hormones to kick in to tell the kid's brain what it's gonna be! And the sex organs are the last thing to develop!
What's to guarantee that, if it was a girl, it wouldn't want to get a sex change, some day and resented being treated like a little girl all her life? Be happy with what you've got and, if it IS a boy, you can always try one more time for a girl. I mean, if you're GONNA be a failure at SOMETHING, this is the best thing!!
I think it's possible for a Dr. to make sure that the next time you knock her up, you'll only get girl sperms in her.

[Apple1996]

It's possible to tell the gender at 6 weeks pregnant with a blood test

[aceleon]

your wife is a monster and a total sociopath

if you able to have this child before this loonatic aborts him do not ever let this beast near him, i guarantee you that she will never love him and doesn't deserve him, experience as a woman? go have female friends, go adopt a girl or have a female pet you god damn psycho!

no seriously divorce this slut after she gave births and use her twisted views as a weapon to take custody of all of your kids including the baby.

[butterly248]

I don't agree with having an abortion due to gender but calling her a slut is too far!

[aceleon]

@butterly248 no it is not, she is a slut who wants to kill her own child because he is not a girl, slut is the least of what she deserves.

[butterly248]

@aceleon I think she may have postpartum depression. And I can't imagine the stress, the hormones etc. Plus there maybe a mental illness

[Apple1996]

I'm fine with abortion but to do it because of gender disappointment is crazy. She knew the risk before getting pregnant that it could have been another boy.

I'm pregnant with my 5th boy and would have also loved a girl but that doesn't mean I'd get rid of my son's like that

[DarkLegacy]

I thought you only have two sons

[Apple1996]

@DarkLegacy nope I'm having my 5th in August

[Asker]

Congratulations. As much as you and I disagree on things, I know for sure you're a good mom.

[Apple1996]

Thank you!

[Blessedme]

She will kill the baby because the babys gender is a boy? What a monster mother is that? She wants to kill her son because he isn't she? I can't believe. Lord help you with this.

[butterly248]

Abortion isn't murder but I definitely don't agree with an Abortion because you're not happy with the gender!

[NamerOfStars]

That's not being a moron; that's being a monster.

[Akam93]

No your not wrong. She doesn't have that right that's your child to damn it. She's a monster.

[Anonymous]

She's been infected by the liberalism nothing left to be leave her and cut her off because that shit might spread to your son's and you don't want that

[butterly248]

I'm pro choice, but this is just a bit ridiculous 🤣

[butterly248]

You guys can try again, adopt etc. For a girl!

[butterly248]

Reading these opinions please talk to her before divorce or whatever. She is most likely very hormonal and stressed

[Asker]

She went behind my back and aborted, I filed for divorce and am taking full custody of my boys.

[butterly248]

I'm sorry. She may not be mentally well. Was she okay after the birth of your twins?

[Asker]

Yes she was

[butterly248]

I think she may have postpartum depression. Please try and speak to her

[Asker]

While I will not discount the possibility, my two boys are 5 years old.

[butterly248]

It can last for years. Did she have a difficult pregnancy or birth?

[KrakenAttackin]

You are absolutely correct to be furious with her.

[Anonymous]

Fake ass story. No one would do that.

[Asker]

Prove it.