Girls, Have you Rejected a Guy you thought was a Good Guy and can you tell me why?

[Anonymous]

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When I mean "Good Guy", I mean a Good Guy for you that you found Attractive.

[_Maya_]

Yeah. The reason why was because at the time I was dating someone. The guy asking me out didn't know that. I knew him a little bit because he came into where I work quite a bit. He was always nice and polite. I only assumed from my interaction with him that he was a decent guy. Had I not been in a relationship at the time I probably would have accepted going out on a date. He was good looking and had a good personality. Sometimes that just happens but I was happily in a relationship at the time so not good timing. Oh well. I am sure he landed a good girl at some point.

[Juneberry91]

There was this guy that I definitely knew it was a good guy. They were good guys that I have been attracted to you and been in a relationship with and there are good guys that I have never attempted to start a relationship because I just didn’t feel attraction.

I will never forget that moment where a guy blurted out “ I don’t understand I have so good to you”

I then told him “ no doubt you are a good guy, but for the fact that you feel entitled for me to like you because you’re good? Be good to be good & not to gain.

The good men that I end up falling for and settled for in relationships, or simply good and don’t push the whole im so good thing. At that point that whining over not getting their way. One has life ever completely worked out to our favor? Hardly lol

[Anonymous]

I dated this one guy and he was fantastic. He was sweet, supportive, loving, kind and we had similar interests, he was the epitome of a Good Guy. The only thing was there was a lack of sexual chemistry. And for me, thats a big part of a relationship. I found that while dating him my libido actually seemed to diminish. I had no interest in sex or anything of the sorts for months, which is starkly different than my libido level before I met him. I thought that my libido would come back or change, but it never did. I still can't pinpoint what about him or dating him was a turnoff for me, and thats something Im working on.

Before dating him, my previous relationship wasn't the best. He didn't treat me right, and all I wanted was a Good Guy. But if the sexual chemistry isn't there in the beginning, its hard to improve on it (in my opinion).

[Rei13]

I have rejected men that I thought were good guys because I wasn’t ready to be in a relationship. I feel like I attracted them whenever I would just get out of a relationship and I was not in the headspace to give that kind of attention to anyone else. Worked out for the best tho for everyone involved.

[Angxl3120]

Yes I was looking for hookups and had asked him if he wanted the same, he said yes. Then after hooking up for 3 -4 times, he confessed. So i had to reject him and had sex for the last time with him.
I dont regret tho he found a better girl who loves him.

[ItsChloe1999]

Yes because he didn’t know how to you his dick properly. Every time we had sex he always used to hit my uterus which was painful and left me with internal bruising. And before you ask, are you sure his dick wasn’t too big for you? No it wasn’t. He only had 6 inches. I’ve fucked a guy with 11 inches before and not been in any pain.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don't know if they were good guys but they were guys who treated me with respect and worked very hard at their jobs. I rejected them because when I thought about them, I felt so distant from God and I thought there was something about him that would distract me from my purpose in life or that he did not worship the same values I did.

[strawberrybaby3]

Yes I have. Either I did not feel like dating, I was in a relationship or their personality/looks just weren’t what I was looking for. Just because someone is a good guy doesn’t mean you automatically want to date them.

[Spongebobssocks]

Yes once. Cause he was my friends ex.. although they hadent dated in years and she bullied me..

But doesn't matter cause it problaby wouldn't have made it to marriage anyways it was in 6th grade😂

[Dinklex3]

Mmm… If I know they are a good person it’s usually because of lack of physical attraction or one of us moving. I think you can be a good person and still not be compatible since there’s more to someone’s personality.

[TruthBeTold77]

Different lifestyles, don't want same things for future, not interested in improving themselves, I just simply don't feel any attraction towards them in any kind of way. all kinds of reasons.

[TruthBeTold77]

Ah just saw the update in that case I'm just being my usual loner self that refuses to date 🙃

[MemeSupreme]

yeah bc we don't click, so why force something that doesn't exist, you know? there needs to be chemistry

[Anonymous]

Yes. Plenty in the past. Various reasons. Not attracted to them. Too immature. No future with them. Tyey aren't looking anything long term. They wanted sex. Etc

[DizzyDesii]

Only if i thought he was deserved better than me

[HateyouxD]

I didn't realize he was a good guy until after maybe

[xoxo999]

yes, this is usually because many girls are used to being in toxic relationships and good guys feel too good to be true. Also a part of them craves the toxicity because of their past hence it is a trauma response.

[yumzie]

Yes cause good guys are cringe 😬 they flirt in a cringe way and main thing most of the good guys aren't attractive at all

[Elinnnor]

Yes , he was a good guy at that moment , he was cute , but I decided to reject him , partly cause I had a whim that he wouldn't be good for me,

[Elinnnor]

I always trust my gut, and it always turn out to be correct.

[laraWM]

No I don't think so

[Simslover92]

Yes. At the time I was into someone else.

[cnj421]

Yes. I wasn’t attracted to him physically.

[Radiate143]

Wasn't feeling it.