Have you ever made your Instagram public to get your ex’s attention?

[Anonymous]

This question is for dumpee’s and dumpers

[ItsChloe1999]

I have to keep mine public for influencing but yes I have posted things that seem completely innocent but my ex knows exactly what they mean.

[Asker]

In my case he was the dumper. His page used to be private and he very rarely posts. His last picture is from over a year ago. he dumped me and after that I removed him from my followers right away. After 4 months he made his page public (still no new posts) I on the other hand have made it public and private

[sheikalana]

I keep my social media private no matter what.

[Asker]

What do you think about his behaviour

[sheikalana]

What behavior?

[Asker]

What do you think.. In my case he was the dumper and his page used to be private and he very rarely posts. His last picture is from over a year ago. he dumped me and after that I removed him from my followers right away. After 4 months he made his page public (still no new posts) I on the other hand have made it public and private

[sheikalana]

Doesn't mean anything. He just wants to have his account public this has nothing to do with you. Stop overthinking.

[Goutham141]

No ex just crush, have never actually done that, but people can do it

[Asker]

In my case his page used to be private and he very rarely posts. His last picture is from over a year ago. he dumped me and after that I removed him from my followers right away. After 4 months he made his page public (still no new posts) I on the other hand have made it public and private

[Goutham141]

It's after 4 months, I guess he didn't mean to do it to show his profile to you, I mean, if it was after 1 week or 2 weeks, it can be. 4 months is kinda long

[Goutham141]

by the way I don't know your situation entirely, so I may be wrong.

[Asker]

But he’s page used to be always private. Also we were talking he used to post very rarely. I even asked him about it and he said that he’s trying to use social media less. Now he’s gone public.

[Asker]

When we were talking*

[Goutham141]

But that was 4 months ago, anything can happen in 4 months so, yk, do u have feelings towards him?

[Asker]

Yeah but he was the dumper

[Goutham141]

Ok, see u have feelings , so it's ur duty to go and talk to him, he may or may not have rn, but you have that's all that matters, just casually catch up with him, it's been months since ur breakup, so casually talk to him.

[Goutham141]

It's not at all easy ik , but what else can u do? It's not even a crush, it's just ur ex, u guys know each other, so easy to converse like as in less difficult than talking to crush.

[Goutham141]

Or give him space, if he likes u he will come, or else he won't igues

[Goutham141]

Just my assumption

[Goutham141]

I don't know if it's right so

[Asker]

So you think him making his page public has got nothing to so with me?

[Goutham141]

I don't know actually, like I don't know this guy, I don't know you, I don't know anyone in ur situation, how could I say tbh, it's from the general information u wrote, it's better you talk to the person.

[Asker]

Wouldn’t it be desperate? I mean he was the one who broke things off

[Goutham141]

Bro, u talk to him, it's ur thing, u have to deal with ur feelings, if u sit here asking questions will it make u feel better?

[Asker]

I rather wait and see if he will contact me first

[Goutham141]

What if he is doing the same? Dude u r crystal clear, ur mind knows u like him, just make a move

[Asker]

Why would the dumper wait that the one HE dumped would message him first

[Goutham141]

Ok, do as u wish👍

[Asker]

But do guys do that? They dump a girl and wait for her to reach out?

[Goutham141]

No, bro I don't know. See it feels like he didn't made his account public for u, but I can't say it fs also, therefore for. more clarifications, please consider following my opinions which I have said three four messages before, Thank you👍

[Jmmmfi4]

ITS ALREADY PUBLIC... BUT YES I've DONE THINGS TO GET HER ATTENTION

[Asker]

Why? Do you think he wants my attention?

[Asker]

My ex did that same thing recently and he used to have his private

[Asker]

His Instagram private *

[Anonymous]

Social media addiction once again.

[Luckycharms12]

Never used Instagram