If a girl beats up a boy?

[Anonymous]

Let's say a girl beats a boy with kicks and punches during an argument, the girl is not defending herself, she started the attack, the boy in my opinion is justified in reacting, reciprocating in the same way, then if she gets seriously injured, she is the one who brought it on herself, it is pointless to moralise.

[Anonymous]

When you're stronger than someone it's just common sense to mesure your strenght when you're fighting them off, especially when you're posing as a victim who was just defending themselves and didn't mean to hurt anyone. If a little kid or some old person attacked me I could detroy them but it doesn't mean I'm justified to do it. In my opinion you become an agressor at the same level it not more than your agressor if you hurt them badly while defending yourself, when you hold more strenght than them. A girl beating on a boy at least thrice stronger isn't comparable to fighting your life vs theirs when someone attacks you in your home or something. Men who think this is justified just love an excuse to beat up women and in general just unleash their violence on someone weaker. They barely get hurt when a woman slaps them, they're more offended and think she deserves to be sent to hospital for it. I didn't even say that but I will explain for the men in advance : I don't mean that a girl should be free to assault a boy. I just think that a boy beating bloody or unconscious a girl who couldn't push him three inches if she tried because she slapped him makes him an agressor and guilty of violent assault. He's not a poor little self defending victim anymore

[Asker]

You are right, but only in part, first of all beyond physical inequality, it is not said that a woman cannot hurt a man, if a woman knows martial arts and hits a man's weak points, he gets hurt a lot, I agree with you that force must be proportionate, if a woman slaps me, I reciprocate with a slap, if the woman throws punches and kicks, I reciprocate with punches and kicks, it's about equality, if you as a woman don't want to be hurt and attacked, don't raise your hands, if a man doesn't want to be slapped, he doesn't have to hit and harass women, what do you think would happen if a man touched a girl's bottom? the woman slaps her, so if a woman slaps me, I slap her back.

[laraWM]

Yes, you're right, but don't forget that your reaction must be proportionate

[Asker]

certainly, if a woman slaps me, I don't punch her, at the most I slap her, but not so hard that she gets a bruise.

[laraWM]

Yes, because guys are usually stronger so you should be careful

[Anonymous]

First thing I would do is attempt to leave. I do not like fighting, pain, or violence of any sort.
If I were backed into a corner and had to use force to defend myself, I'd attempt to shove them away to create distance.
The goal isn't to hurt your aggressor, but to get away so you can either file a domestic violence case against them, or simply just leave them alone entirely.
If your aggressor is trying to kill you, use whatever force necessary to save yourself. Get the authorities involved if they're needed.
Just because women are supposedly "weaker" doesn't mean they can't hurt you if they're trying hard enough, so leaving the situation as it begins is usually for the best before anyone takes it too far.

[LiamJHayden]

Moralization is irrelevant. If a 5'4 120 lb woman punches me and kicks me and I respond in the same way I'm going to prison because I am in all likelihood exponentially more powerful and she will be hospitalized or worse. No reasonable D. A., judge, or jury is going to accept that the response was a defense commensurate with the real or perceived threat.

[Asker]

A woman if she knows martial arts and does gymnastics can seriously hurt a man, it is not wrong to hit her hard if she kicks and punches, maybe in sensitive places (face, stomach, shins), it is obvious that if she just slaps you, you cannot punch her hard in the face.

[DaBiggestBird]

If the boy clearly has a higher power level and starts bulldozing her like she’s a Chuck E Cheese then they’re both in the wrong here. No one should be hitting anyone but that’s obviously beyond anyone’s mental capacity so yes, anyone with probable cause is entitled to fire back and toast the attacker like a Sub Way sandwich. Also just want to put out there, martial arts and deep relying on p*ssy moves AKA cheap shots are by no means the same thing, better yet similar. Two completely different philosophies on opposite ends.

[Asker]

In reality, a man may react, if the woman hits him violently in the sensitive areas, the latter may defend himself and strike a blow, even a potentially devastating one, the woman who decides to attack a man, must be assuming the risk of this happening, if she does not want to break herself, she must not initiate the fight, for what reason can a woman kick him hard in the lower parts, if a man gropes her? even in this case the action is not proportionate to the offence, yet many would justify the woman.

[DaBiggestBird]

Yeah that’s kind of what I said. In the Thicc Kingdom that attack and all against genitalia in general if forbidden.

[ohmyguy]

keeping your hands to your self is pretty importaint how can on respect some one that doesn't respect others.. treating others how we want to be treated ring a bell... if not dont be surprised if one day get your bell run...

ever hear step up like a man go. down like one..

three strikes your out..!

[DummyThiccFeraligatr]

In a fair world, a woman hitting a man would be viewed the same as another dude striking him. But we don't live in a fair world.

Actual answer: when there's a conflict between a man and a woman (even if she instigated), any reaction from the man is too much. Sad but true.

[KrakenAttackin]

Criminal law and basic human rights give everyone the basic right to self defense. The issue is a) will the guy be believed, and b) is his response proportionate to the attack.

We all know the guy stands an excellent chance of going to jail even if she started the fight.

[Billlewis]

I think you should just stop at the part where she beats him up. I love the sound of that.

[wallflower_fantasy]

The consequence would be the same. It doesn’t matter who started it.

[Anonymous]

His actions would be justified, but he will never live that down.

[TruthBeTold77]

What's your question 🤷

[Asker]

i wanna know if people are agree with me.

[TruthBeTold77]

Just punch her one time and knock her out. That's fine. If you stamp on heads kick when down or anything that then but then I don't believe in hitting anyone when down nor do I believe in doing more than what's necessary.

[Anonymous]

True, I don't feel sorry for her

[Anonymous]

what is the question here

[Pohjolan]

Fuck around and find out.