Why do girls you hooked up with in the past?

[Anonymous]

I try added them online but they don't accept

When there friends with lots of my friends

Do they hate me or love me 😂

Updates

+1 y

They all liked me at the time

[HappyWoman34]

I don’t know.. you’d have to ask each one as an individual. If it’s me you’re talking about, I don’t hate anyone. I just don’t like certain behaviours, so I’ll be nice, up to a point, because I love people in general and I’m a nice person, in general. However, I won’t encourage them any further.

[Asker]

Ya but I'm trying to figure is it cause we never became a couple and really liked me or they just hate me 😂

[Asker]

Like why be friends with all my friends and ignore me because I was a live interest
Many girls have done this to me it's annoying...
Maybe they do it on purpose to hook up in future or just hate u... I don't know

[Asker]

*love interest

[Asker]

Or just play with you to get with you again I don't know
Women

[HappyWoman34]

I don’t know.. I think you’d have to ask each individual. It seems to me like lots of people play mind games with each other.

[Asker]

But what I think is women do this to me on purpose to show they are not my friend

So I'll work harder to hook up in the future

Women only play games with guys they like
I think this is true

[Asker]

If I didn't mean anything they wouldn't do this

[HappyWoman34]

I read over what you said about women not adding love interests and I don’t think most of us can cope with just being friends with someone we have or had feelings for.

[HappyWoman34]

Once we’ve made out with you or touched your junk or slept with you, it’s hard to go back to being mates.

[Asker]

I agree
So that's good for me 😀

[Asker]

Because I don't want to be there friend

[HappyWoman34]

So, you’re interested in someone who’s doing this? Or you want a friends with benefits situation with someone?

[HappyWoman34]

Trying to better understand the situation, so I can help

[Asker]

Yes I want to add them online so they don't forget about me and hook up in future cause I like them
But obviously they think differently

[Asker]

By showing in not there friend but I like that

It shows me I had some effect on them

[HappyWoman34]

In many cases, girls may or may not still be interested, but they’re afraid of getting hurt by you, so they’re avoiding you. You have 2 options. You can ignore them and find someone new, who isn’t jaded, or you can try to open up about how you feel about them and what you want from them.

[HappyWoman34]

So you like them just for sex? Or you want to date them?

[HappyWoman34]

Most women want more than sex, or end up getting feelings from intimate touches with men

[HappyWoman34]

I’m going to assume you’ve got feelings for someone. That’s how it sounds. Try to add her yourself and be direct about what you want.

[HappyWoman34]

My feeling based on my own experiences as a woman, is she’s not playing games with you. She’s scared of getting hurt or being used, or she’s put off by something about your behaviour

[Asker]

Ok thanks for your help...
I only add them because I hope to have something with them in the future be it sex or relationship
But I understand why they don't add me because I was a love interest which is what I want to be regardless of nothing or something happens in the future...

[HappyWoman34]

Then tell them about it. Be brave xo

[Asker]

Maybe in future I never see them now there not around

[HappyWoman34]

Be brave. You’ve got nothing to lose. Most women are reasonable. They’re not going to destroy you

[HappyWoman34]

I’m looking for web pals on here.. feel free to add me if you’d like a chat and/or more advice. Perhaps we can help each other xo

[Asker]

Thank you I will when I meet them again

[Asker]

Since they ignore me online lollll😂

[Asker]

I added hi123

[HappyWoman34]

Ok 😊. Thanks

[Jmmmfi4]

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