Why do girls come back around when you start talking to someone?

[MLGbreezy]

Something I’ve alway found was interesting is whenever I’m in a drought once I start talking to a girl. Out of nowhere girls I used to talk to that I might have tried shooting my shot with again while in that drought or that I might wanna reconnect with but never actually tried reaching out to in a long while seem to start coming back around. Even if they themselves don’t know I’ve started talking to another girl it’s like clock work. I’ve seen it happen a few times including with girls I used to talk to who are in relationships hitting me up to imitate something on the low. Have you ever had this happen?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude no joke, that always happens! I think for girls it's like they can smell it when you moving on or talking to someone else. Suddenly they wanna pull you back or see what they missing out on.

My friend said it's cause girls are competitive deep down, even if they don't realize it. Like they wanna be the one you choose, ya know? Or maybe they just like the chase. Either way it does your ego good to have em lining up again haha.

I think really it's just that starting something new with another girl makes you seem more desirable. Like you got options so they better act fast if they still interested. Outta sight outta mind and all that.

Plus maybe they miss the attention you used to give them when it was just you two talking before. Grass is always greener and all.

So yeah man, moral of the story is keep your options open out there. Nothing makes a girl wanna lock it down like seeing you talking to other girls! Play the field, get em competing for you king.

[ProbablyClueless]

Despite women's many claims that women are unique and that the hive mind isn't real; when one woman sees something desirable in a man, it's a signal to other women that he's got something worth looking into.

[MLGbreezy]

I used to think it was a myth till I experienced it first hand but I think it goes even deeper to some like kind of female intuition cause there this one girl I used to talk I wanted real bad but she has a boyfriend now and we hadn’t talking in like a year maybe longer I’d talked to
Other girls in between but recently started talking to this one I real like but I’m not sure if that’ll go anywhere and out the blue the girl I used to talk to message me behind her bfs back and well let’s just say she wanted to do more then just chat

[MLGbreezy]

What’s crazy to me is how they just know I don’t post any of this online when I’m talking to someone new and I certainly didn’t tell any of them it’s crazy

[ProbablyClueless]

Yeah... It's almost like there's some kind of hive mind. lmao

[MLGbreezy]

🤯 it all makes sense now