Why do some other women treat me like they’re better than me?

[Anonymous]

[Flatmanlewis]

I think women have a very complex system of hierarchies and worth-assessment. It seems to me that women can spend a lot of time evaluating the women around them, and their worth. Everything from their makeup, to hair, to clothing, to figure, to how they carry themselves. I don’t think guys do this to guy at the same extent that women do.


Why? Not really sure. I only have my own theory, and what do I really know?

[slatyb]

What do they say or do? In my experience, when people feel as you do, it's not anything anyone else is doing.

[Asker]

Maybe I feel inferior then.

[slatyb]

Could be. If possible you might want to talk to a counselor. Both my father and my ex-wife felt this way "Those people think they are better than me". In reality, no one was thinking about them at all.

[Asker]

That’s reassuring. I think it’s because I am so introverted and have isolated myself so much lately. It’s so hard to adjust.

[slatyb]

If you can, get some counseling. I wish I had at your age.

[Asker]

Thank you so much. Yeah I think it’s because I’m autistic and I’m scared people will think I’m weird.

[slatyb]

I'm not autistic but I have often felt the same way. Are people close to you telling you that you are behaving oddly?

[overthinkergirl]

they are just full of themselves, don’t worry and know your worth:))

[Asker]

Thank you. I feel like it’s a huge problem women face.

[overthinkergirl]

yeah maybe but some women just think they are better and cooler than everyone i dont know if thats because of them having brands or what. but i just dont care. i do me they do them

[TalkWithoutSpeaking]

Insecurity combined with a false sense of entitlement and well, arrogance ofc

[kareka]

How they do