Why do women treat me like I'm a second class citizen?

[Anonymous]

When I go to cash register, or a restaurant, anywhere there's a reasonably attractive woman, they don't make eye contact, and when they do they look away with a roll of their eyes, complete indifference. Occasionally I'll catch a girl glancing my way, but I just assume it's because I'm funny looking. When I'm attracted to a girl, and they are rarely conventionally pretty, it always turns out they have zero interest. I'm 28 and I've been approached by a girl once. I'ts not even like this happens when Im actively seeking someone, I just find I'm treated like a peasant.

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The question is, is there something wrong with my looks?

[Applefan1]

Well the rolling of their eyes is very rude. Some girls are very rude and have terrible attitudes, this is also the same for some guys. All it says is that the girls that do this to you are just not worth your time or effort. Be glad you found this out now and not when you are married with 2 kids with a girl. This kind of attitude is more common amongst girls that are very attractive. However, not all girls that are very attractive are like this either but all I am saying is if your going for the best looking girls you will run into this problem more often. I know how you feel I have had a guts full of girls treating me like rubbish when I have done nothing to them. Scowling at you, rolling their eyes, scoffing at you when you have given them nothing to be mad about. This is why I am focusing on myself, I am going to finish my degree and then look at buying an apartment and going to try and not worry if I don't meet anyone. You should do something similar.

[Anonymous]

most women who dont look similar as in the symmetry of your own face or same fashion sense or social group will shrug you off. people who are similar to you especially facial symetry like the curve of your and her eyebrows or eyes or head or something is the same will like you a lot. most women reject me and im very good looking they never look at me bcus im too high up there. just like u won't need to take a second glance if a person look very different than u

[Cjanes]

It honestly probably have nothing to do with you. Personally when I'm at work or at any public place I tend to avoid strangers especially young males. I'm not shy by any sense of the word however unless I'm at a place like a bar or with a group of people I'm not out to make friends or otherwise. So I avoid things like eye contact or extended conversation with people because it can lead to awkward situations. My advice is to go to places ment for social activity such as a bar or volunteer group. Don't sweat to much over everything

[Cjanes]

No there is nothing wrong with your looks at all :-)

[Moose2coolvargas]

So that's what it is Cjanes, a lot of women do that to me in public. Just seem standoffish

[Cjanes]

It's not really to intentional so don't sweat it they don't mean to b standoffish

[Anonymous]

Um they're just treating you like any other person?
You described how I look at customers and strangers whenever I'm at work or out. I don't want to make prolonged eye contact with a stranger, especially a guy (don't want them to get the wrong idea)

[pr3ttybr0wn]

you are very thin and your clothes look outdated. you aren't ugly but i think you should try to put more effort into your looks. try to gain a little and go to the mall and update your wardrobe

[James0]

A lot of girls at work get hit on a lot and it's get annoying

[Anonymous]

You don't look like you have an assertive presence. Odds are you simply aren't coming off as sure and confident in yourself. Up your dominance and confidence and I think you'll start doing better.

[jacquesvol]

They already have a boyfriend or husband.