Guys, are there anything that a girl may do on social media that’s a turn off for you?

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Anything a bit annoying? Perhaps, overly posting to her story, posting multiple pics a day, liking ever one of your story etc? I’m just curious, thanks In advance!😊

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

I'll be honest. I'm not into social media.

Just a girl being on social media is a bit of a turn off. Now it is manageable. If a girl doesn't really post much. She has just a few pictures. Maybe a photo of her pet. A couple of photos of her family. A picture or two of food. She isn't that active, doesn't take it too seriously. That is one thing. Plus, if we aren't in a relationship then it isn't as much of a big deal.

Girls that take it really seriously and just post endless pictures of themselves. Take tons of alluring pictures. Lots of sexy pictures. Lots of skimpy bathing suit pictures. What the hell are you doing? Anyway, that is a turn off and a sign, she isn't for me, move on.

Here is the crux, You meet, you start dating. It gets more serious and you become an exclusive couple. Then what? You have this page full of tons of sexy pictures that you make open to the public. Any man on planet earth who has stumbled onto your page can then gawk at all of your sexy pics. Any man can keep direct messaging you as much as he wants. Complimenting you, flirting, talking to you?

On what planet is it ok for a taken woman to keep letting hundreds of men on line check her body out and to stay in constant contact with his girl? To keep flirting with his girl? To keep propositioning her in these completely secret, private messages?

"Oh, I'm not interested" Who gives a shit. "Oh, I don't respond to them." Who gives a shit. "I don't respond to them." Who gives a shit. You are keeping yourself available for other men to see you and contact you privately.

I would have never taken a girl who was big into social media serious. It's a deal breaker.

DannyUk2017 · Accepted Answer

Yes...
Naked, half naked, pictures.
Pictures in underwear/braless
They post to "atrract audience", if if they start getting harrased/stalked, they start to cry/moan, well shouldn't post indecent stuff out there.
Another thing is that a person that SPENDS lots of time ONLINE, rather than with the other SO, that is a lost Relationship, even in the bed, middle of sex, dinner, lunch, walking together, if the phone is getting more attention like from 5 in 5 minutes, then that relationship is Doomed. Even as a couple, the phone can be used as a "destructive" weapon.

sheikalana · Accepted Answer

I'm not a guy but I can tell you a few things that annoy people in general. Posting useless stories every day just to get the attention of others, posting philosophical and cryptical quotes, constantly sharing selfies, using filters, constantly changing their profile picture. I could go on and on.

Biancam13 · Accepted Answer

I know this question is for guys about girls. But one turn-off for me in a guy is if his name is under every girl's photos, and he follows many many girls' accounts. OR if he follows or is inspired by Dan Bilzerian or Andrew Tate.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Any form of being an attention whore. I think women that can't find self-validation are cheaters, whores, and all the worst women can offer in this world. They just constantly lurk about seeking attention like it's a hard drug or something. It's disgusting...

... and I'll jerk off to her pictures.

Guys, are there anything that a girl may do on social media that’s a turn off for you?

molonski2 · Answer

Sure..

Ludicrous half naked photos , playing to followers , far too many posts , basically trying to live her life staring into a phone , most of it is extremely off putting indeed , there is real life out there , social media is not real , its full of fake , fake , fake expectations.

BCA6010 · Answer

Yes. Basically, the more she actively uses it, the more of a turnoff it is, and if she's exhibiting herself for attention pretty much at all, it's a huge turnoff that will more than likely prevent a relationship from ever developing. Honestly, I'd rather find a woman who barely uses it at all, or not at all.

jojoiwiwbwjo · Answer

Act she's like a loyal girl who behaves well and would never fuck another guy thats boringly vanilla. I want my women to own her sexuality and herself. The only thing that would turn me off is if there was something she didn't do because it could turn me off.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Using vulgar language on her post make me believe is she really a girl or a guy pretending to be a girl and is Catfishing people, so I'm careful and this can be a turn off. If a girl comes clean and can prove she is for real then I'm all cool about it, but things do happen, and the Internet will be the Internet Lol

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

Naked pictures, wannabe, too much social, post everything, whenever u go any place like restaurant or cafe n they take pics n post (not going out with them again) i find it cheap and looks like they never been to nice place before, anything regarding showoff i find it cheap,
Guys posting shirtless pic all the time make them me unfollow them
Showoff, fake, im not finding word's back of my head 🗣️

Anonymous · Answer

A woman who posts multiple profile pics a day is the most consistent tell that she's a narcissist. Fellas when a woman does that, thats a clear sign to keep her at arms length. Any "connection" you have with her will be 90% drama.

You're welcome!

Nikki1989 · Answer

Men who think every pic has to be a shirtless pic.

Honest-Matt · Answer

Validation posting, thirst traps just to have men comment how much they want her. It's definitely something to leave behind as an adult.

strateguy632 · Answer

any girl with lingerie or bathing suit pics on public social media instagram etc. is a turn off and red flag. why social?

RingOfFire · Answer

Where do I start! I would say the worst is posting sexy pics. That's a complete turnoff. Who wants a girl who is advertising sex on the Internet to an unknown audience?

Shamalien · Answer

If you post anything about yourself I’m pretty turned off. That includes sexy photos, selfies, talking about your vacation or this new thing you did, literally anything yeah. I’d prefer a girl that doesn’t spend much time on these things

YourExLover69 · Answer

Showing her cleavage and semi nudes pics everyday or every week.  Posting her party pics, show off.  Posting dog filter pics, goofy pics.

Constatine · Answer

Almost naked... Showing everything... That is more that a turn off...

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Selfies. Here and there are fine but everyday with a new selfie or 10 is kinda cringe. Food pics as well, no one cares about what you are eating.

AmeerX · Answer

Being an internet sensation, insta model etc. Other than that the annoying part is selfies/profile pics changed too frequently. That's affecting me always

jahaims · Answer

Pretty much her using social media period is a turn off. Other than keeping in touch with friends and family people use it to get attention so they can get dopamine hits and feel good temporarily.

BigDog1989 · Answer

Paid to create If you're going to be paid to create, how do i know if anything that you're making is actually true, or just you being told to "do it"

DextroShade · Answer

Having scantily clad pictures or pictures of herself on yachts, in supercars, or at exotic destinations that it's obvious dudes were paying for.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Well...

Fireguy17 · Answer

endless selfies, constantly posting lord knows what all the time. pass.

Marklaw12 · Answer

Posting pictures that show body parts. It's tasty. It's unbecoming. It's unnecessary. Same goes for clothes too tight

Paul09 · Answer

Too many posts. Too much makeup. Too much fake body add-ons. Cigarettes, expensive overrated clothing and items. Etc

Anonymous · Answer

I don't use it, so I generally don't care. Obsessing about it would be a negative.

Anonymous · Answer

probably seeing another guy in pictures of the girl they're following on social media

Staximus · Answer

Posting materialistic or status chaser or "clout chaser" bullshit

Nifrayu · Answer

Maybe if they demonstrate a lack of empathy.

boobliker · Answer

tell us there life store before we have been on a date

Iron_Man · Answer

It would probably be flirting with other men if I was involved with her, which I’m not

Christoff92 · Answer

Say unpolite replies even try to Stereotype my age.

clubboss · Answer

Too much time on social media is self destructive and brings more harm than benefit to their personality.

Guardian45 · Answer

Yes, being TOO shallowly narcissistic. For example, having a bazillion selfies!

BLP11520 · Answer

Yes, talking about all the travel they want to do.

YAsQuen · Answer

lol BE on social media. more than one selfie a year. run.

Anonymous · Answer

Same outfit same background multiple pics.. ughhhhh

Truthatanycost · Answer

Yes.. having a social media account.

Massageman · Answer

Showing her four hundred tattoos.

jojoisaskingyou · Answer

Pouting in all her photos

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Post a picture every damn day. 🙄

In_Trance · Answer

Best to stay off social media

krin_m · Answer

Be clingy and needy and seek attention.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes be an attention whore

azgınteke · Answer

I don't care at all

aadrianaa777 · Answer

guys who post there back 24/7

Anonymous · Answer

Obnoxious behavior, and being ignored.

Anonymous · Answer

an adam's apple

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