Girls, she texts me but stopped sending snap photos. What does it mean?

[Anonymous]

It doesn't really bother me, we had a streak, we lost it, she opens my snaps— nothing now. But she always replies to my texts. She obviously is snapping her friends but suddenly she stopped sending me? It used to be full outfits, forehead to nothing. I just am curious why a girl would suddenly stop sending snaps?

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+1 y

Hello: not nudes— this is just general snapping, nothing of that yet. I haven't even gotten that far yet.

[_Maya_]

Perhaps it is the way you reacted to them or lack of reaction. She might have thought that you were just not interested and that she was bothering you by sending them. Just a guess. Maybe the way she read your interest is actually different than how interested you really are. Why not just ask her? That or ask her if she would include you again when she sends to friends? There is nothing wrong in showing that you are still interested in her content and what she posts.

[Asker]

Maybe, I do snap without words lol, or I'd snap her a pic of my cat or what I was up to when I remembered to reply lmao...

I snapped her and said "I don't know if this is weird but I liked your outfit snaps and was wondering why you stopped our streak :0?" Because I am super scared of running her away with "clingy" if I asked... but you're right I guess I'll ask. We've been talking for a month so I just didn't want to push.

[_Maya_]

Sounds like maybe I am right or at least part right that she interpreted you as maybe not so interested. I don't think you are being pushy by asking her though. I wouldn't find it pushy if it were me.

[Asker]

I just don't want to make her feel pressured or feel like she has too and then ghosts me because I'm "clingy" or "Needy", when I'm just genuinely curious if she's just lost interest. Clearly not if she still texts me lol

[_Maya_]

Nah if she still texts you she hasn't lost interest. I wouldn't bother texting someone I didn't want to have a convo with.

[Asker]

I have heard that from a number of my female friends who are either bad txters or ADHD haha, okay, thank you! I hope she doesn't react negatively to my snap asking about our streak or why she stopped snapping photos. Haha nervous, I kinda am crushing on this girl a little more than I expected to.

[_Maya_]

I am sure you have nothing to worry about. Easy to overthink stuff when crushing. We are all guilty of it.

[SueShe]

I am a little confused with your "snaps" term. The only thing I occasionally do is snapping my fingers but that all I understand under this term.

What do you mean by "snapping her friends"? Can you snap friends? Perhaps that you could enlighten people like me that have no idea about those modern expressions that, honestly, don't mean anything.

You can use the update box and perhaps rephrase your question or add some explanations. Otherwise, you may risk not getting very many replies.

Now, if she sends (or not) texts and photos through whatever means, she could have her reasons for doing so. Did you ever talk with her in real life; I mean face to face or is it something that people don't do anymore in the place you live?

Forget about all those social media and if you want something from someone, then talk to them with your voice and on a face to face basis. That would clear a lot of issues people have.

[devilish-cutie]

tell her you hoped she would send you some more fire outfits

its also possible she wants you to take things on the next level and you are slow so she might not want to invest

also it might not be anything, she might not just have pics to send or need to

if she is still texting you there is no reason for concern yet

[devilish-cutie]

if she was the only one sending pics she might want you to send some to her

[miafryer2004]

If this is a recent thing then it’s probably because Snapchat have recently changed their terms of use and are clamping down on nudity. If she’s still game about sending nudes then try Kik.

[Asker]

No no, not nudes I mean of her in general, I have not cross that bridge yet! Lol

[miafryer2004]

Then maybe she trying to keep thing platonic. Sending a person a selfie usually means that you’re interested more than friends where as text messages are more platonic. She probably thinks that you are getting feelings for her and is trying to distance herself.

[Asker]

Well that stinks, hopefully she doesn't cancel the second date. Haha

[Paris13]

Now she is Just Being Polite to You. Move on. xxoo

[Anonymous]

Maybe she finally matured.